My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years and when we both got together we both swore off marriage, I am divorced and he's never been married, but now it seems that I need more out of the relationship. He's a good guy, but very often he bad mouths people who are engaged or just got married, he is anti-marriage all the way. In the beginning since we both felt the same about marriage I thought it would be okay to have a relationship. Our relationship has gotten routine and everytime I try something new to keep the relationship from getting boring it bothers him. As for sex, he wants it only 1 a month, he has trouble with erection from drug abuse when he was young. He has no goals, I want to buy a house, and finish school. Everytime I talk about we, he changes it to I. This guy has been a bachelor all his life and I don't think he's ready for any kind of real commitment. I am ready to move on, how do I tell him nicely as to not hurt him to much.
2006-10-24
08:28:06
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