about little things. his mother has bipolar illness. why would he get mad and take everything out on me he acts like iv'e done something wrong which i haven't all i did was help his mother. we are both on the same account and sometimes he says it's not enough money on it which i know there is because i keep track of everything bill money plus extra spending money. why does he take everything out on me and act like hes mad at me for something something?
2006-10-24 08:24:50 · 5 answers · asked by eeee f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because he can't take it out on his mom he would feel bad after wards and you the one there at the time. Tell him how you feel and about the way he acts when she is around.
2006-10-24 08:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy. this is a bit much for your husband to expect of you.....taking care of his mother.
He takes things out on you because you are the one he lives with.
He needs to find a healthier way to deal with his stress. Also his mother is more than anyone wife should be asked to deal with.
You should of known this when you married him.
2006-10-24 15:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to have a sit down talk with your husband, when his mom is not around. ask him if it bothers him that she comes over. and once youve setteled what his problem is, ask him how the 2 of you can solve all of the issues he has when she comes over. and let him know that all you want to do is help.
2006-10-24 15:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it's his own mother why the hell should he be mad at you for taking care of her....if he acts like an ***, then tell him to take care of her himself
2006-10-24 15:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother-in-law is manipulating you.
2006-10-24 15:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋