Im six months pregnant, and he still live with his ex girlfriend. I have been with him for 4 years. He hasnt even told anyone im pregnant. What do I do, I want revenge?
2006-10-24 07:39:23 · 44 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your revenge should be leaving him ASAP FOR GOOD!!!!!
You say your 6 months pregnant and he's living with his ex girlfriend???? She obviously isn't his ex girlfriend if their living together. Both of you are being played right now, and why do you lower yourself this way??? Why do you want to be with a man that lives with another woman??? You deserve better for yourself don't you think??? You would be doing you and your unborn child a big favor by leaving this loser. Save yourself from the heartbreak now before things get worse because things are going to get worse sooner or later. It shouldn't be about getting him back, it should be about you using your common sense right now and doing the best thing for your life and your soon to be baby. Please don't learn things the hard way because you will always have regrets.
2006-10-24 07:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another set of f***ed up people brining some poor unfortunate into this world.
What the hell were you thinking getting duffed up to some guy who clearly only wants you to shag.
Go out get a job work hard, get your education so that you are actually an example for your kid and it has a good life. Forget him he is a total no mark. Be best revenge beside hitting him for child support would be making a sucess of your life. Imagine driving you and the kid down the road, in a BMW ZX3 or some such while he is still sponging on his ex.
There is no revenge like sucess.
2006-10-25 08:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will get you no where in life. Sounds like his ex really isn't his ex. Otherwise, why would he still be living with her and not tell a soul you are pregnant?? You need to ditch this loser and concentrate on your baby. That is the most important thing here. If you do anything in retaliation, he may use this in court against you to get custody. Do you really want to take the route of revenge?
2006-10-24 07:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg
You are being used big time.
ARe you stupid enough to think that nothing is going on with the X gf???????? I be you anything, that they are actually together and you are his piece on the side. Why degrade yourself like this.
It is obvious that this man lies and cheats on you.
And how could you be with a guy for four years and be ok with him living with another woman........even if they were not together. Which I believe they are together.
Revenge will only hurt you.
Get the guy out of your life. Higher your standards in men. Don't put up with such crap. Get child support from the guy and move on with your life.
I just can't believe that you have been with a guy for four years and be ok with him living in the same place as his X., This doesn't make sense.
You are bringing a chld in the wold in this situation???
Stop defining yuourself by this slim ball of a guy.
You are worth more than this
2006-10-24 07:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sup lil sista, its like this, you already know he isn't faithful, aside from that he is lying and you also know he lives with his girlfriend, no baby not his ex, his girlfriend.
take a couple of steps back and realize you are the other woman. wheather you want to accept it or not, oh its true its very true. that is where you are. now you should ask yourself what do you want. if you check up on him, then you are still involved with this cat. men that cheat like yours they will never be only yours they belong to every women that meets their fancy. so if you want to share him leave things as they are, and continue to live as you have and don't ask the ovious question.
now your main concern should be your baby. let things play themselves out. why stress over an unfaithful man, value yourself more than that. what good would revenge do, do you actually beleive that his girl friend is going to kick him out or believe you? he hasn't even aknowledged your pregant and its his.
men are liars, mostly. some are better than others. have your baby, pray its healthy, hit the father with child support but i seriously they will get much out of him since like you said he is living with the girl friend. make it better for you. your unborn child should be your concern not the other child your boyfriend.
besides revenge is a dish best served cold. not in the heat of the moment.
good luck with your baby
2006-10-24 07:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by diablito69us 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! Get some self esteem honey, it won't be easy but don't kid yourself in thinking he'll change, he's lying, he lives with another woman (an ex for goodness sake!!) and probably won't pull his weight when the little one comes along. Sorry to be so blunt but you could have needed him, what if something had been wrong with the baby? You're better off without him. The best revenge is to find happiness with somebody who deserves you. Show him you don't need him. you've got to put your needs and interests first or you won't be in any fit state to be a good mother.
2006-10-24 08:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by esmequeenoftheworld 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, he lies to you (not at work when he said he was), he got you pregnant and is leaving you to deal with the baby, still lives with his ex (are you sure it is his ex?) and he does not even acknowledge you are pregnant to anyone. If you want revenge, take him on the Maury show or Jerry Springer and let the world know what a scum he is...
2006-10-24 07:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is drop the loser. Forget about the revenge you got a baby to think of.Dont do anything stupid or you might end up in jail. I would not speak to him take any phone calls or if I seen him on the street I would look the other way believe me it will drive him batty.I been doing it for 16 yrs to my sons father and he cant stand it.By the way if he wants to see the baby tell him to go to Hell.Best revenge is to tell him the baby isn't his. Thats what I did.
2006-10-24 07:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by blueberry_coconut_1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of revenge would you want? he has already got his revenge on you, he got you pregnant. You need to leave him alone, you know he was taken, since he is still with his girlfriend. Now go and make a life for you and your baby!
2006-10-24 07:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break it off girl! What are you thinking? He lives with his ex and is trying to keep the baby a secret and now he's LYING? What is wrong with this fool. Concentrate on what is important to you (hopefully this means the baby) and get away from this horrible man! That should be revenge enough!
2006-10-24 07:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋