i'm in v.bad terms with my sis of late. nothing personl but her views towards me&our relation r changing a lot

Question

my sis has been away from me for the past 2 yrs. and her attitude towards me and our relation are drastically changing.i am feeling very bad and left out. she tends to be diplomatic than affectionate. everything seems to be a formality these days from her side. she has excluded me from her future planning. that's alrigt but she has started to hide things from me about her future and everything else. she has been telling her friends that i interfere too much into her life. these days she's into a relation with somebody and it took me a six month period after i came to know about it to make her speak about it.that too when i caught her red handed. i love my sister very much but she is just being diplomatic

Answer 1

is your sister a teenager? if yes than such changes are normal in every girl or a boy. she may be thinking that you being her brother will try to dominate her about everything and may interfere in her matters though you may not. thats ok. just dont act like as if you are her brother, try to talk to her about this matter and act as if your her friend, this really works and anyways, all the best.

Answer 2

It's true that you interfere too much into her life. Let her free to live her life, either you change your attitude and behaviour towards her. She is as wiser as you are because she is your sister. If you want to take care of your sister you have to build-up a confidence in her mind. What do you mean "i caught her red handed"? Is she doing wrong thing. If you think it is wrong, then you have to convince her that she is doing wrong instead of being a cop and catch her. Try to catch her faith and confidence.

Answer 3

This will pass, I'm sure. Be thankful you have a sister.

Answer 4

Give her time. She will be OK.