I always thought I wanted to retire, now that it here , I need something to do . I am on several boards and committees. But i get depressed when I am not involved in some kind of worthwhile activitites. Please don;t mention housework, you can only clean so much and there are only two people living in my household so there is nothing much to do . I don't watch soap operas and game show only stay on for a limited only. Everybody I really know are working. Know anythings that help me beat the depression.Also I travels a lot and I am fine , but it when I come home after two days the depression sets in.
2006-10-24 08:18:47 · 16 answers · asked by Beulah L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are retired from work, not from life. People retire so that they can enjoy their lives. What did you daydream about when you used to work? Try doing that. Discover if you like Indian or Thai food better. Volunteer at the SPCA. Run for office. If you just sit at home and reminisce about the things you used to do, you will get depressed. Find other things to fill the time.
Best of luck.
Remember, retired from work, not from life.
2006-10-24 08:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go back to work? There isn't a law that says when you retire you have to stay retired. Alot of people feel the way you do. If you feel you can't return to work then volunteer. Try things you use to want to do but never had the time. It doesn't have to be traveling. Now is a good time to get in shape, read a book, write a book. The skys the limit. Use your imagination. Keep your mind active. Join a club. Start a club. Help a neighbor. Make new friends or lookup old ones. Or when all else fails get a pet. Pets help with depression. If you can seem to beat your depression go to a doctor. Good Luck
2006-10-24 08:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a group of people who are learning something creative, like a ceramics class, or go on a group hike. The Sierra Club sponsors group hikes. Take this opportunity to indulge yourself in an interest or hobby you didn't have time for when you were working, preferable with people who are doing the same thing. I think the suggestion someone gave about volunteering with children was good, or volunteer to help care for older adults who can't get out very well. Focus outwardly, not inwardly.
2006-10-24 08:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by galacticsleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have wanted to retire from the job you worked for a career, but it sounds that you don't want to retire from working. Why not volunteer at a pet shelter? Or you could work part-time tutoring children! There are lots of volunteer opportunities that will keep you busy as well as being a blessing to those who need it.
Good Luck!
2006-10-24 08:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club, such as the Lion's Club, that supports worthy causes and has several activities that you can participate in. Volunteer at your local library, hospital or assisted living facility. Get a part-time job. There are lots of things you can do after retirement. Find something you enjoy doing and get out there.
2006-10-24 08:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly suggest getting involved in two things. First: Volunteer work....this can be done outside the home or even assistance from home online or on the phone. Second: Start a home business. Making crafts? Selling things online? Refurbishing furniture? The options are endless.
2006-10-24 08:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still work, even though you are retired. Think about something you REALLY love doing, and find a part-time job with a company that does it. You should have a lot of fun doing it, but also be happy that you can relax at home when you want.
2006-10-24 08:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by gregthedesigner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a member of boards and committees, if you travel a lot, clean, and keep busy, and yet you're still getting retirement blues, you obviously get depressed at the drop of a hat. Get a damn job if you're so upset with retirement.
2006-10-24 08:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a social schedule so you get out of the house at least every other day, then depression won't set in after two days home, because you won't be home for two days straight.
2006-10-24 08:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by ifyousaysooooooooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to volunteer, or find some senior groups to get involved with. Check with your local college for free classes. There are so many opportunities out there.
2006-10-24 08:20:55 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋