I found out he WAS a racist on my race(hes white) when i told him about it all he said
thats somthing i dont want to talk about
2006-10-24 08:33:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
those are big statements-how would he be your b/f if he was anti black-i love black people but I never desired to date one because i believe dating is for marriage-and I dont have romantic chemistry with or at least never have-but i love socializing while back at that church and going out to eat with em and stuff in Jesus care-david in His amazing grace
2006-10-24 08:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a very good relationship if the two of you can't discuss certian things.
Do you really want to be part of a guys life who has racist feelings?
A relationship is work and to add this to the mix seems like a bit too much.
If he won't talk about it.....that means he isn't open to having a good relationship.
You deserve more don't you think?
2006-10-24 08:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, why are you still with this loser? He hates your r ace, yet he's with YOU? How wacky is that? Where do you honestly think a relationship like this can possibly go? You want to marry him and have children with h im? If you do, you need a shrink worse than he does.Do you honestly think somehow that you're not worth better than this? Life is very very short, and you are spinning your wheels and burning precious daylight every day that passes with this guy. Send him on down the road, and move on yourself.
2006-10-24 08:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... if he WAS... WAS is a big word with this. He is obviously not anymore, you need to let it go and move on or you will chase him away. The Past is the Past. Move on, or loose him... It must have to be hard to know that, but he isn't anymore if he's dating you. I would just let him come to you, just don't bring it up anymore, hell act like you even forgot about it... let him come to you. Don't push him, or you'll push him right out the door.
Good Luck.
2006-10-24 08:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to have a mature conversation about why he is prejudice against you race, maybe you can help shape his thoughts. If he won't do it, leave him. Who wants a man who hates an important part of you.
2006-10-24 08:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you subject yourself to someone that doesn't like another race( which you are a part of)? It makes me wonder why he is going out with you, if he has hatred for people who are different from him?
2006-10-24 09:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jassierra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aint no such thing as "WAS" a racist. If he dont want to talk about it then dont press the issue... whenever u around him just start saying damn whitey... he'll talk eventually...or not
2006-10-24 08:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by fattie69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what his motivation is for being with you in the first place. How can he be with you and have those feelings? IT sounds to me that you need to tell him "Hit the Road, Jack!"
2006-10-24 08:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by galacticsleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you found out is true, the best thing you can do is leave him. He is probably just using you for the sex or the status.
2006-10-24 08:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ask him again if he don't want to talk about it i then would breakup with him. Because why would you want to stay with someone who hates your race.
2006-10-24 08:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by tree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋