You know when things don't add up, you know you are not going to get the truth if you ask out right.... Can anyone tell me a way to find out??
2006-10-24 02:04:07 · 28 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hate to say this but unless you're an overly paranoid person, gut feelings about cheating are usually right. dont follow him because you'll probably get caught. ask his friends, check his mobile, make sure you find out. Men are great liars so dont ask him outright
and also, please don't be too upset if you find out he's cheating. men who cheat are just wankers and they'll do it to the next girl too. better you find out now and get yourself a decent bloke
2006-10-24 02:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but i should follow your gut feeling as normally gut feelings is normally right.
I knew something was wrong with my ex but i just pushed it to the back of my mind because i did not want there to be anything wrong. I just carried on as normal.
He dumped me for his ex girlfriend. I am now on my own and i only have the question why did i ignore the gut feeling? Why did i not do anything about it at the time?
All i have left is the questions and regrets, don't let this happen to you
good luck
2006-10-24 10:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C u have 2 be cool kind of have the talent of finding out stuff wifout him knowin..... once i fort my bf was but becoz of his job hes always all over the place so i got ppl 2 follow him....he mite b stressed out so hes acting differently, when u gater enuff evidence(providing he is) then confront him and ull hav all the facts so he wnt b able to back out
2006-10-24 09:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by vicky s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to bring it up in a joking way, so that he doesn't feel threatened, and judge his reaction. If he has a suspicious reaction, come back and ask what to do next. If not, trust the guy and get on with ur life!
2006-10-24 09:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Resolution 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if u suspect the you r probably right unfortunately if he is cheating then he probably will Deny it and lie so u got nothing to loose just ask him tell him your suspicions and if he is any kind off a man he should admit it
i mean its not just u he is cheating on you can bet the other woman doesn't know about you either
so my advice is just confront him
good luck you r going to need it
let me know how you get on
2006-10-24 10:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did summat terrible to find out my bf was flirtin online wid girls, i made up an i.d n then emailed him makin out i was lookin for some1 else n he replied. not only did i email him we started talkin n i sent some pics of some girl on 360 i dont even know , (n she looked young aswell) far too young for him anyways, n he went for it , n he was droolin over the poor girl , n anyways all in all i wish i hadnt bothered now, findin out my perfect fella is a creep has ruined our relationship. now i can never trust him again, whats worse is wev bn together 6 yrs n hav a lil girl thats 3 . he really broke my heart .
2006-10-24 09:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlipsy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really feel for u, i have been through the same. i can only tell u how i resolved this. i started by takin all his numbers from his mobile, incoming and outgoing, that were out of work hours, then i told him i wanted to bluetooth a tune to him n downloaded all his pics, which were quite an eye opener. i then passed them on to a private investigator who did the rest. if this is not an option for u then when u have the numbers u could try calling them or texting.
2006-10-24 09:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to him. Tell him that you need confirmations from him. If you can't talk to him about your relationship; maybe it's time to move on anyway...?
But there can be many reasons for strange behaviour, and it doesn't automaticly mean that he is cheating. It could be something else, and if you wish to continue seeing him, maybe some serious talking will help?
Good luck!
2006-10-24 09:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are prob right so dont let on to him you suspect anything. Get a key logging prog for ur comp.Get him drunk and when he falls asleep go thru his mob for txts and strange numbers etc!!!
You might not like what you find out so be prepared!!
2006-10-24 09:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his cell phone if he leaves it lying around...see what messages he has or frequent calls he makes. Make surprise visits when he finishes work and say you gonna treat him to a meal just or sake of it or turn up for his lunch breaks. Following could be tricky depending on both your mode of transport.
2006-10-24 09:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by felicitym2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋