I know this is prolly an age old question but I am posting this because I want to hear it for myself i've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 1/2 years and like all relationships we have had our ups,downs,an way downs anyways I love her with all my heart to the point where just seeing her makes me want her I dont think i'm a pervert or anything unless being a perv is willing to do anything an everything my partner wants to do sexually to make her happy even if she wouldn't ask for it for example if we are forplaying or whatever an things start to heat up i'll voluntarily ask an do what she wants to do whether it be mutual masterbation,oral or sexual intercourse and thats exactly where my dilema lies it seems that I am not getting this kind of feedback from her which really hurts because it seems like i'm putting 110% when i'm only gettin about 55% back I just dont think it's fair but then again for all i know i could be at fault here please help me out.
2006-10-24 01:31:39 · 22 answers · asked by Josh G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They do! You are not doing it right
2006-10-24 01:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well some guys are this way too they want to look at porn rather then have sex.i think your mate should be conious that you want it as much as she does and you dont want her to hold back that other 60% you are putting in. some women ,love to have sex i think after a while to your mate sex becomes boring you have to do something to spice it up for her if you eat the same meal all the time soon you will tire of that meal.change up the way you do things not saying what you are doing now is not working. do some candle light dinners,buy her some lingeri,buy her a new dress and take her out this will inhands her desires for you .good luck
2006-10-24 01:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's point of view, I wish I had a hard core answer for you. It seems like sex, to me, is not a huge deal. Everyone is different though. I have friends who want it everyday, yet I could care less if I have it at all. I don't have a problem with sex, and a reach climax every time my husband and I fool around. But, my sex drive is nothing like my husbands.... honestly, I think it is a personal preference....you either are really into sex, or you aren't.
2006-10-24 01:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a women I have to say I look forward to sex every night. It is the highlight of my day. I must admit that I use to be shy but then my man bought me some sexy leather to wear and a fifth of my favorite liquor and I let it all my inhibitions go. Now I'm in control and not scared to be.
2006-10-24 01:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try new things with her she might just be getting bored because you probaly do the same thing over and voer again. And I am sure that your girlfreind is up for new things that will excite her. So try news things if you don't know any ask her is there something that she wants to try.
2006-10-24 01:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by EMTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman do, the thing is just woman are confused, they say size don't matter and then they get stuck with a size that matters to them because they would like a bigger size.
Darling woman have sex when they want to and if they don't want to then your not pushing the right buttons. I know.........
2006-10-24 01:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Susanna G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Argh, why must you stereo-type ALL women?? I have an extremely high sex drive. At times, even higher than my boyfriend's actually...
Have you tried TALKING to her about it, maybe she wants you do something differently but is afraid to say it. MOST male egos are very fragile..
2006-10-24 01:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We do , however there is more to life than sex . Perhaps she wants more .
She may feel like a possession instead of a partner . All I heard in your "Q"
was I , I , I, . What about her ?
2006-10-24 03:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tis better to give, than to receive! Maybe she just doesn't feel comfortable being the aggressor, or perhaps she is waiting for you to be a little more dominant. Give her a little spanking and tell her what you want!
2006-10-24 01:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women don't want sex as men do because women are relational an men are more on the physical aspect.. women loved to talk, share quality time.. sex is important in a relationship but women are more satified when time and money are spent with them..
2006-10-24 01:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by ameerwink 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my desire was next to none, it was b/c I was not interested in the person I was with. Stayed with him for all of the wrong reasons.
But now that my heart is true to my b/f now, I want it as much as he does.
2006-10-24 01:37:41 · answer #11 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋