Marriage & Divorce - 27 August 2006

my husband and i are watching a movie tonight and dont know what to watch. we have seen all the scary movies, titanic, and dont like reality shows or anything like that. we are looking for either a funny, or scary movie. can someone give us any ideas???

2006-08-27 17:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by im so yummy 1

my wife and i have agreed to seperate for a few months to discover ourselves as she puts it. and she says that its ok for us to see other people. Is this acceptable.? I thought that seperation was just legal. Plus NO ONE will date someone who is still LEGALLY married.

2006-08-27 17:10:31 · 11 answers · asked by joseph c 2

My husband and i have been married for almost 20 years, and just had a baby. He has become very sarcastic, and mean towards me. Its like I can't do anything right anymore. I have become very depressed. I don't want this to affect our child. If I approach him for affection sometimes he pushes me away. He never even says goodbye in the morning anymore. Any suggestions?

2006-08-27 16:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by LULU 1

2006-08-27 16:34:41 · 21 answers · asked by Peaches 1

i can't deal with it Am i wrong ?

2006-08-27 16:33:32 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine 4

My husband and I been together 5 years. We love each other very much.We share a mutual respect. We get along very well. (for the most part) We have good sex on a regular basis but we dont "make love" We have made love maybe 3 times in our 5 years together. I cant figure it out........can anyone help.........Please???

2006-08-27 16:29:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married 5 years, last 12 months no formal job. Kept everything from yardwork to house clean to meals prepared and delivered to husbands work. Two per day, waited on him hand and footand ran his company errands. He tells me I will get nothing but my clothes and thats it. I never said I wanted anything else but to get away from all of the mental abuse weekly. Can't even be there now he says he will make my life miserable. Hes scary, but I believe it is a medical condition. For us it is over unfortunately, what rights do I have? I am lost here!!!!

2006-08-27 16:27:10 · 9 answers · asked by gvemethreesteps 3

for women if you have this only 2 choices which would you rather be in

2006-08-27 16:21:54 · 25 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

Here is my perdicament: I been married 7+ years met my husband online in Aug.'98. We married April'99 Tought it was the best relationship I have ever had! Untill we finally moved in together and he started with ignoring me and not treating me the way I wanted to be treated! In June'05 I cheated on him and had a one night stand he found out and cheated on me with an actual relationship even though he didnt sleep with this woman in his eyes he thinks he did nothing wrong. Well that was all from June to November. Finally he ignored me more the computer was his best friend and I am becoming more and more depressed and lonley then one day out of the blue he starts the I love yous again and is huggin and kissin me! That was from February till approx. March. Then he started the ignoring again for about a week then went back to the I love yous again for another week! It's an on and off thing. I have 2 kids and no full time job....Would like to hear your opnions on what you think I should do!?

2006-08-27 16:20:48 · 23 answers · asked by MIKKI 2

I have asked for divorce 4 times in 16 yrs. Everytime she fights so hard to stop it. I back down because it really is un-comfortable to act on. We dont sleep in the same room going on 7 years. She does nothing tokeep the peace. I have absolutely no attraction for her. I am miserable. I have 2 kids 4&8. I really can not even afford to be on my own right now. The very sound of her voice makes my skin crawl. She is always upset about something. Yet, somehow I settled into content in my misery. Please dont tell me marriage counciling. I am beyond even caring what she thinks or wants. Her every complaint about me is directly tied to behavors she has had with me that made me become the un-caring person towards her. Where do I go from here? Should I risk loosing everything to find happiness. (Meaning only property, I wont giveup joint with kids) I am a wreck. Has someone here gone through this and wants to give their insights?

2006-08-27 16:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

wel, he got w\ me behind dude's back,said he couldn't let go of his past for fear of dude exposing him, oh and he was taking dudes money for us. he admitted it after 4 months and says he is now straight! i love him and he loves me, how do i honestly 100% forgive him? he wants to stepfather the children of the man i left for him, they already call him daddy and he claims them as his daughters. my dad was or is gay, am i trying to get the relationship i never had from my father. help,especially any one who has been part of a similar situation. oh and he has a son w/ another woman from many years ago who i am attached to and the feeling is reciprocated.we were good friends and fell for each other, we are happy together and both want to stay together always.we want to marry as soon as my divorce is final.

2006-08-27 16:17:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think these women are being used or the men? Is it wrong all around to you?

What do you think? Would you ever do it?

2006-08-27 16:16:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

functioning of my family. I am also wondering how physical, economic, social, emotional/psychological, cultural and moral functions of my family will be affected? I just want to be prepared for the kids. Thank you.

2006-08-27 16:06:37 · 12 answers · asked by nickname000 1

ok am seeing a mexican guy and when i tell people about it they keep asking me "has he ask you to marry him yet" why? i me are mexican men some kind of...who ask every girl they date to marry them? am really confused by this i mean am currently married come on its not like am old and have'nt had a husband yet am really confused why do they keep asking that we have only been seeing each other of 6months

2006-08-27 16:01:00 · 6 answers · asked by lisa 3

i have a monster in law whom i cannot stand. my husband will not stand up for me, she emialed me some nasty letters saying how she didnt like my parenting, and i was a bad mother. my husband refuses to stand up for me. she keeps coming over and asking questions..i dont know what to do. ive told her how i feel, and she refuses to listen. im to the point where i hate her

2006-08-27 16:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by mommyof5 2

1) I have an Aunt who married for his money, They've divorced and both broke.
2) My mother and biological father divorced when I was a year and a half.
3) My Bio-Father got remarried to another woman after they had a kid. A few years go by, he has an excellent government job, but not much time to spend at home. Paying off mortgage on a 50,000 dollar home. She becomes ungreatful brat, divorces him. In divorce court, wants house, house rights, kids, spousal support, child support. She only got the house, spousal support, child support. She never got the house rights, or the money from his portion of the mortgage. The Greedy B.

4) I've met a bunch of guys who can't see their kids anymore, and get their work checks raped when they go to work, not even leaving enough to live on(roof and food), lower than minimum wages. If they get 50 bucks, their lucky to see 10 of it.

5) My Grandma (from my mother's side) was married to her 5th husband for 23 years until her death.---Go Grandma!!!

2006-08-27 15:56:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

...marry some one even though your daughter doesn't feel comfortable with it? Oh yeah, and your daughter was raped less than 6 months ago so she doesn't trust men and you didn't know until 3 weeks ago.
-Iman J.

2006-08-27 15:52:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Based on my last question I compelled to ask... How can you learn to trust someone who repeatedly destroyed your trust in them and expects you to just trust them because they say so. How do you rebuild trust or can you, when history kept on repeating itself up until now? How do you believe things will be different when after 10 years it hasn't really changed much. Do or can you just take the persons word for it?

2006-08-27 15:49:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been with him for 2 and half years and the first year was great and the second was great too but we just had less sex. and the last 6 or so months we have maybe had sex like 3 or 4 times. ive asked him why and he says its his back. hes had 3 back surgerys, but like a few days after his last one in 2005 we had sex couple of days after it. hes very loving to me hugs, kisses pretty every thing except sex and type of sex. and im going crazy im only 24 and im just geting really moody with him and i go off on him for no real reason and i tell him its cuz of the whole sex thing. i really dont know what to do any more any ideas or some kind of advice on the situation

2006-08-27 15:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by marynew8 3

if we go to a nightclub or party , he gets mad and says i a mustnt look at any one, he stands outside the toilets thinking i am going to sneak off.he gets mad if i hug a male freind.he searches my phone when i am sleeping and asks who the caller is with every call.i have known him for 6 months and i have no interest in any other man ,but i find his behavouir boring and irritating, should i kick him to the curb with his problem or is there a way to make him be more confident of my wanting him alone?we would like to get married but i cant marry someone who mistrusts me unjustly and is constantly looking for evidence of my nonexistant infidelity.

2006-08-27 15:36:34 · 24 answers · asked by monica a 2

How do you do it? How can it work?

2006-08-27 15:35:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi
My GF is pregnant, she wants to get married, I do not want to (she does not know I do not waht). She wants to child to born within a 'legal' family. For me, it does not matter. Moreover, I am scared of marriage (from a previous failure which costed me lots of money and health).
How do I tell her?

Is there an option to marry and avoid liabilities, besides a pre-nuptional agreement?

Ethically, what to do?

Am I doomed??

2006-08-27 15:32:38 · 13 answers · asked by bonjour_shanghai 1

a. The Simpsons
b. The Huxstibles (how ever they spell it Cosby show)
c. The Bundys (Married with Children
d. Will and Grace
e. The Ricardo's (Ricki and Lucy


Best answer and why make me laugh, get the points!!!

2006-08-27 15:12:01 · 9 answers · asked by classy chic 3

2006-08-27 15:11:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm interested in a guy that I have known for several yrs. He use to own a business, similar to the one I am working in currently. He is good friends with my boss (the owner). This guy knows I'm interested in him, who, btw, is recently divorced. He recently sold his business and now works for a company that my business uses. He is actually our sales rep. I have to wonder if his friendship, with my boss, and the fact that he's our sales rep has anything to do with us not dating. He has told me that he's just not ready to date anyone, and I believe him. I know he got burned pretty good in his divorce. However, I can't help but think this whole situation has something to do with it. He has lots of ladies who hit on him and want to date him. Some of them are his clients, and he won't go out with them. Do you think this could be part of the problem? Are there many people who feel this way? Don't date fellow employees or clients?

2006-08-27 15:10:50 · 9 answers · asked by Fuzzy 2

my husband abused me and my parents he didnt give me anything on my anniversary and said that he doesnt want to give anything to me. he abused me on my anniversary.he said that he is stuck he wants to leave me wat should i do? he always says all this in anger but it hurts me wat should i do?

2006-08-27 15:09:12 · 13 answers · asked by carrie 1

I've been dreaming about her lately and it's disturbing. I feel like talking to to my ex but I'm afraid it can make feel the way I used to.
I love my fiancee and who should I talk to?

2006-08-27 15:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by Rio Man 1

2006-08-27 14:59:49 · 11 answers · asked by peter 1

ok so my bf and i are still together..we have been together 2 yrs...but the sad thing is..when he mistreats me i feel like i dont know what to do..i know i should break up with him..but i just cant..i feel like i need him..and you can talk sh*it whatever i dont care..thats how i feel..im just saying how does a woman tear herself away from a man who she knows doesnt treat her the best..i know it sounds lame..like hello just dump him..but like were really attatched..and also i have issues being alone..like i feel like the only person who im connected with is him..and i cant go on living my life with no connections with anyone..i dont know if i sound mental or what..(sad huh?) anyways please any advice you can give..no insults please...im feeling down enough as it is..

2006-08-27 14:54:07 · 3 answers · asked by kelkel0514 3

2006-08-27 14:48:08 · 2 answers · asked by sassykeke@hotmail.com 1