Marriage & Divorce - 27 August 2006

I'm in the military, currently deployed in Iraq and soon returning to my duty station in Guam. I'm going thru a divorce & just want what is best for my daughter. I know my daughter loves her mother very much and vice versa. I have been gone from her for almost 18 months, so my daughter only gets to hear my voice on the phone and see me in pictures. I don't want to take her away from her mother but I feel that love isn't enough to take care of her. She has no job, has a son that I am providing for, even if I gave her the house, she could not pay the mortgage even with 1/6 of my basic pay as child support. I offered to let her live in the house free of rent vice child support so our daughter, her son, & her could have a place to live that they already call home. I'm stationed overseas & my Command is willing to work with me if I was to get sole custody. She has a track record for making horrible decisions, including bringing a drug dealer to my home while I was deployed in the Iraq 05.

2006-08-27 03:27:21 · 10 answers · asked by tigrlove1974 1

2006-08-27 03:27:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

They lose a ton of weight to fit into a wedding dress and then turn into Shamu after the wedding. I see it all the time. And this is BEFORE having kids!

2006-08-27 03:22:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-27 03:16:24 · 31 answers · asked by sylesh3 3

I seem to end up doing the vast majority of household tasks and would like to find a fun creative way to inspire my partner to take more responsibility. Do you know of any strategies, techniques or tips that would help to do this in a loving way? Or, do you know of any books or websites that might have some great ideas? Thanks in advance for your help!

Cheers!

2006-08-27 02:57:18 · 9 answers · asked by kmills_ata 2

My husband had relationship with a man and a woman I hate so much. Out of grief, I have been drawn closer to a friend. Im having clean platonic relationship with him.

2006-08-27 02:57:10 · 11 answers · asked by simplegal170905 2

hi, my fiancee is not pulling his weight and i am super stressed about doing everything myself. Also, I don't have a driver's licence and need it to go looking for places, which means, i would need him to drive, but he places Everything (friend's barbecues, work....) before finding the place! i feel completely unheard and frustrated. i feel like calling the whole thing off! what should i do! really do love him, he's just so lazy and uniterested about the whole thing!

2006-08-27 02:52:23 · 11 answers · asked by ingrid 2

2006-08-27 02:50:50 · 13 answers · asked by skeeter 1

2006-08-27 02:41:11 · 41 answers · asked by hotchick 1

In Gods eyes I am still married, but I signed the divorce papers some years ago now which my wife requested as she no longer loved me in that way. We are good friends still, but obviously now live away from each other. Would she have got the divorce anyway-even if I did not sign the papers?

2006-08-27 02:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I preferred the excitement of having an affair - now we are married, I feel shackled and bored? Divorce is out of the question.

2006-08-27 02:05:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think yahoo should labl these subjects as adult material, since pre teens and teens have no clue as to adult life?

2006-08-27 02:01:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are some things i can try with my fiance that are new but arn't completly crazy or painful? What are some was i can loosen her inhibitions

2006-08-27 01:57:18 · 6 answers · asked by alex 1

2006-08-27 01:55:05 · 25 answers · asked by amanda_wallace5 2

2006-08-27 01:48:39 · 4 answers · asked by Georg S 1

2006-08-27 01:45:15 · 22 answers · asked by ricardo l 1

My husband and I have been married for nearly 5 years. He is middle eastern (non-muslim), I am american. Last year he went home to visit his family and I found out that he didn't tell them about being married. When he got back we had a huge argument about it and his response was that they wouldn't understand or accept it. I believe that family is important but I also think that I should be important enough to be acknowledged. He says he loves me and I love him, but this situation has me so stressed out that I'm too tired to discuss it anymore. I don't know if I can trust him or if I should. What do you think about this and what should I do?

2006-08-27 01:44:00 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa 1

our sex life is out of this world I watch porn, dress up for him we play games etc. but him keeping this secret and doing it and getting off he says as a stress relief really bothers me because i pride myself on being quite sexual and enjoy everything even looking at other women. He says it has nothing to do with me or out love and that its not even sexual I'm not buying that. And that he has been doing this behind my back for a year news to me. And that this is hard for him to talk about because he wanted to keep this his own secret the one thing he has all to himself. It just makes me question everything now. I want to be the object of his desire and get worked up by me. We had a very bad dry spell late last year not because of me new promotion at his work he was always stressed and I find out now that he wasn't satisfing me at all but he sure was himself. I need to understand the need for this why hide it when it wouldn't have been a big deal I love porn up for anything Help

2006-08-27 01:43:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in a position of authority at his work and is friendly and good looking. He works with cute girls, lots of friends and employees. He comes home tipsy about 3-4 nights out of the week, sometimes only two, but never less than one.
Everyone there drinks together and he gets his social life through his work. I wonder sometimes if he isn't having TOO much fun, if he has a crush at work, who exactly he's hanging out with, etc.
I feel very left out and excluded and I'm wondering how I should feel about this. I don't have much of a social life anymore. While he has friends and fun and flirtation all around him.
I also think he might be doing drugs at work. I have voiced my feelings about it but he feels justified, that he "put's in his time with me" enough, but it's not true. We never do anything just the two of us, because of my schedule and the fact that we have children. He says we can't do anything together because it' a money issue and a time factor.

2006-08-27 01:43:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I must have caught my wife cheating on me at least 20 times over the last few months. She has promised to stop after i confronted her as many times. I came home last night and caught her in bed with a midget and all she could say was " well at least im cutting down ".

2006-08-27 01:22:45 · 65 answers · asked by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6

2006-08-27 01:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

do god..esses , daemon or jin marie ? would you marie a godess or jinn or daemon ?
i know thay exist so whould you fall in love ?

i have ?

2006-08-27 01:06:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-27 01:03:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

In addition I need to do it from abroad as I do not leave there any more and I am not an Australian citizen.

2006-08-27 00:55:27 · 4 answers · asked by vogelist 1

hello-benn with husband 11 years-married 4 years. been having problems since the start of our marriage and the last 8 months have gone from worse to unbelievbly unbearable. many issues to be resolved and we have tried councelling. .he's been avoiding our problems and not putting any time or effot to help build our marriage up. He says he is committed and will try. But each and eveytime is a let down. He puts our marriage as a last priority and never has time to set aside. In last 3 months, we have been speaking about 10 days out of 90 days. So he said he would spend this sunday with me..time to heal and start to rebuild, then he gets a text from his friend last night to say that they were having a church service for her fathter that passed 3 months ago. He went to the 1 month service and will go to the 6 month and 1 year. But he had to once again cancel our day 2gether. Am i unjust to think he can put our marriage first for once when he promises me. He does this all the time? ADVICE

2006-08-27 00:51:38 · 23 answers · asked by nat n 1

2006-08-27 00:50:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-27 00:48:31 · 14 answers · asked by jlctln 1

my husband thinks he is good at sex and wants to have sex hith a model with me also. so it is a threesome sex. i don't feel good at it.its just a fantasy but he would like to make it real one day?how should i react?i hate it.and how do i know if he good at sex like what he said?

2006-08-27 00:37:43 · 21 answers · asked by bumblebee 1

We are married 11 years & we have 3 wonderfull kids. Our 6 year old girl has problems (was diognosed with depression & we were both at each others throats & then she got pregnant with twins. Had sex 3 times that year & we were cut off in the middle of the last time we had sex. She got pregnant & I made the mistake of saying are you sure it was mine because I have been cheated on in other relationships. I snapped out of that mode, changed my attitude but she put up a wall toward me & ever since has told me that she cannot trust me. That was 4 years ago , I have never cheated & I love her & my twin boys so much. She refuses theropy. She doen't give me any attention I feel unwanted. She says she wouldn't blame me if I cheated on her. We have sex but she never starts it. I buy her flowers, gifts treat her great.
She says shes not sure if things will ever change. Should I stick it out or find another relationship. What should I do. I love her so much but she won't open up, 4 yrs help

2006-08-27 00:35:07 · 11 answers · asked by jeffrey k 2

2006-08-27 00:23:05 · 26 answers · asked by *art blest* 2