2006-08-27 01:45:15 · 22 answers · asked by ricardo l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i guess it all depends on why the marriage is sexless. i could be a medical reason on either u ar your partners or both, it could be psychological, or sometimes the other doing something like drugs or haveing an affair. sense this is such a wide spectrum of possibilities i would suggest to first be seen by a medical doctor ( both of you). if thats not it then both of you need to go to marriage counseling. and last resort have your other checked out by a private investigator to make sure it is not infidelity on their part. also last but not least if you are being unfaithful then stop immediately and get counseling. hope this helps.
2006-08-27 01:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by dana_29646 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one should live in a sexless marriage if both are healthy enough for sex. If she is "withholding sex", she may have a medical reason or lost the desire. You did not give very much info in your question. Age's of both spouses, has there been any infedility in the marriage?
2006-08-27 11:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the only gender that lives this way. Many females do, some by choice, others for medical reasons or stubborn wills. It is up to the individual if he/she wants to stay in a marriage where there is no physical attachment. My feelings would be if it was due to medical problems then most likely I'd fine alternate means of gratification, taking care of myself. If it was because my partner just lost interest and refused to satisfy my desires I'd seriously think about getting some counseling on marital problems. If it was stubborn wills, as in he/she thought the spouse had cheated and is holding out because they thought they would contact a STD or just plain thought they could never trust you again and denied you your marital rights then I'd be headed to the divorce courts
2006-08-27 09:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would have to live in a sexless marriage... only if he loves his wife so much that sex is secondary... or the guy doesn't like sex... there can't be any other reason...
and if he doesn't want to remain sexless... and still be faithful... then he should get out of this marriage (that is if the wife doesn't still agree for the sex part of it)...
2006-08-27 08:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by publically_private 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to live in a sexless marriage. Get a divorce and find someone else.
2006-08-27 08:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD forbid this happens, but if you are married and you end up having a major health problem or get in a bad accident and you are unable to have sex you will be in a sexless marriage. a relationship is not all about sex.
2006-08-27 09:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by nurse2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person shouldn't have to. Sounds like there is something wrong other than what is "not" going on in the bed room. withholding sex is sometimes a symptom of something else, whether that is a medical issue or a emotional one. Communication is important to have a good marriage. Talk to your spouse.
2006-08-27 09:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't there are pill out there to help women and there sex drive. If that is not a problem then there is a problem somewhere. People don't stop having sex with partner for no reason. You need to find out what it is then fix it and then the sex will be there.
2006-08-27 08:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why man is living without sex in marriage is not clear. every where none of the partner in married life should live sexleess if not advised medcally
2006-08-27 09:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because he chose to live in a sexsles marriage but guys dont have to.they just choose to eather they love their wives that much, they have values, or they just havent found anyone thats willing to be a friend with benefits.
2006-08-27 13:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by super girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋