my husband thinks he is good at sex and wants to have sex hith a model with me also. so it is a threesome sex. i don't feel good at it.its just a fantasy but he would like to make it real one day?how should i react?i hate it.and how do i know if he good at sex like what he said?
2006-08-27 00:37:43 · 21 answers · asked by bumblebee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give him a slap
2006-08-27 00:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by prince 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in your opinion is he good at sex? And what does having sex with a model have to do with being good at sex?
The question is "do you want to do it?" And, if the shoe were on the other foot would he want to have a MFM threesome? Many men have no problem with a FMF, but say "no way" to a MFM because of their own insecurities. If he is wants to have his, the he better be willing to let you have yours. It's only fair. Doesn't mean you have to, only that it has to be okay.
Threesomes have to be for all three of you. Not just him.
2006-08-30 09:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can say this much. i do have threesomes with my husband. I am a bifemale. He gets the best of 2 worlds but I also get pleasure from the other woman or man. I know that I have learned that he can please others just as well as be pleased. Just do this if he wants to have 2 women .. tell him you want another man to see how well he measures up to him.
2006-08-27 03:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by chuck c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remain cool.Dont react for if you do it will just encourage him to proceed further.You should be knowing about your husband's sex prowess by now.If you think he is indeed good then you should be scared of his fantasy.If you think he is not so capable then dont waste your time in even thinking of such an act.So ths solution lies with you.If you think your husband is good then at least you can worry about the fantasy coming to life.If not carry on with your daily chores.Your mind holds the key.You should know about your husband's capabilities.
2006-08-27 00:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you the Lowdown on threesomes....Spoken from
experience. Plain and Simple if you want to keep your relationship with your Husband...Don't agree to it. I did it for 1
because maybe I was kinda curious. 2 because He suggested it
asked me to think about it. 3 I trusted that nothing goes any
further especially behind my back. 4 I choose the female, if she
agreed. sound casual so far? Check this out. three different friends of mine that I felt close enough to at different times of
course joined us, everyone knew the deal. I believed! it's been
around 8 years since and they still F... around! I caught my closest friend in our bed 2times with him! I thought it ended when I said no! what a idiot I was. never trust they won't go behind your back, they eventually will! I feel now that if a boyfriend/husband wants a threesome he should'nt be in a relationship. If you wanted a 3some with another guy your man would probley
get all bent out of shape, then start trippin thinking you are messin around with someone else or wonder why you would want the 3rd person to be a guy since he claims to be the King Sex kong? but nowadays ya never know...the two of them might
get it on during the heated moment, really dig it, then you get kicked to the frickin CURB! They want their cake and eat it too!
Whatever on that one...anywayz, think hard and good luck. things will definitly change between the two of you. and if he brings the girl to meet you, 'a friend of his'. he's been there...Feel me? but it's only my opinion. go with your gut feeling.
2006-08-27 02:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Vtownn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't know he is good at sex then he probably isn't, and if you are no interested in a threesome it is a bad idea. If you have fantasized about another women maybe you should give it a try.
2006-08-27 00:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a good lovers will mutually please each other, but they both have to agree on things as well. If you don't want a third, it should be end of discussion. In my experience, women involved in 3 ways are either very close to the other woman or bisexual. If you agree to go through with this, you're quite a wife.
2006-08-27 08:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him talk out his fantasy. Don't tell him you hate it or he will feel that he can't talk to you. Although he probably would go through with it if there was another women around, it is just a fantasy right now so just let him talk.
2006-08-27 00:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know by now if your husbands tool is good or not where have you been when all this tool sharpening in the shed is being done.
You're asking for a 3rd party to join in...becareful for what you wish for. You'll have the consequences to pay.....having your cake and eat it too...makes one want more cake.....and more frosting lick....YOUR marriage trust me is doomed...DIVORCE is on your horizon!
2006-08-27 00:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee well if your comfortable about bringing another to the table, his fantasy will be complete, and then what, what about your sexual fantasy, will he help complete that one.
its just a fantasy, and should be kept there, because reality is very scary, and besides thinking you are good at sex is one thing, knowing you are is another
2006-08-27 00:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It will destroy your marriage in the long run. Just fantasy if you want. But once you bring someone else to bed with you the marrieage will be over.
2006-08-27 00:43:16 · answer #11 · answered by Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋