My husband had relationship with a man and a woman I hate so much. Out of grief, I have been drawn closer to a friend. Im having clean platonic relationship with him.
2006-08-27 02:57:10 · 11 answers · asked by simplegal170905 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not a good thing at all - Especially if you are not happy with your husband about something. It could raise suspicion, and even worse, you are at a vulnerable moment. If this "friend" is a wee bit tricky, he could get you into trouble and exploit you.
The wise way, is to confront your husband, reconcile with him, and grow closer.
There is no such thing as close platonic relationships... they are borderline affairs.
2006-08-27 03:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Phaedrus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't be platonic for long, trust me. You says your husband"had" like in the past?? Relationship?? I think you are looking for an excuse to have that "platonic" relationship, The whole thing stink!
2006-08-27 03:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by class4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to hurt your husband with this relationship?
Are you seeking support and friendship. When one examines the motivation for ones action, a determination of what is correct can sometimes be made. You are the only one that can determine if your actions are correct in the situation.
2006-08-27 03:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair because you are becoming emotionally connected to someone other than your husband. Some would call that cheating. By virture of the circumstances, more could happen that you will regret in time.
2006-08-27 04:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine if you keep it platonic and you husband doesn't feel threatened by it.
However, I think it might be better to deal with your husband's problem (or your view of his role in it) with your husband.
2006-08-27 03:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing it because of the relationship your husband has? If so, then you're headed for trouble.
2006-08-27 03:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 16:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by allateef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to ask,just go ahead girl!But i need to ask u something,did u ever forgive him?
2006-08-27 03:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by EMMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new husband....that one cheats!!!
2006-08-27 03:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as u do not sleep with him, it should be cool
2006-08-27 03:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Joey_D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋