2006-08-27 03:16:24 · 31 answers · asked by sylesh3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is whatever the two people make it. If they want heaven and work toward, it will be heaven. If they won't cooperate with each other it can be hell.
2006-08-27 17:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by huztuno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The days after are made by the people involved in the marriage, they both must be willing to compromise and make sacrifices for the good of them both, plus you must fight not to get stuck in a routine which will drain the passion from the relationship.... so if the days after seem like a hell then it's time to show once again why it was heaven int he first place
2006-08-27 10:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by vicolstravnos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that many relationships can change after marriage. Whether it's the man or the woman. Sometimes a partner feels an over sense of security and feels they can act whatever way they wish. Some get controlling, let themselves go, even feel trapped after being married for a while.
I've known couples that have been together for over 10 years. They get married and the relationship is over in less than 5 years.
This isn't the rule. Just observations. I have seen the opposite. Couples that are closer after their married.
2006-08-27 10:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A common man has completely misunderstood this phrase. The lines end like "Marriages are made in Heaven" but many people add an extra line too it which is worthless.
2006-08-27 10:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Pomey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is sacred institution - and like any other relationship you get what you put into it. People feel marriage is hell is because they seem to spend ages courting their partner, but once the mariage is over, they forget to work their charm and take thinsg for granted.Then the feelings of having a lack lustre marriagecomes into play and the problems creep in.
2006-08-29 09:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by lallulgj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term marriage made in heaven refers to the marriage not the wedding. If you plan it right, it's only the wedding that's hell, and the marriage is heaven...
2006-08-27 10:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is. But i thought that marriage was made in hell. At least it feels that way.
2006-08-27 10:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by blackturmaline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the situations which makes you think like that are part of your married life.love grows with arguments.marriages are made in heaven and the days after marriage is also made in heaven.its only the way of thinking.
2006-08-27 10:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by enriqueta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not take it in literal sense. You have to laugh it off.
Marriage is to lead a real life with your opposite sex.
For this understanding one another is important.
There is no heaven and hell, somewhere and unseen.
We (humans) are the cause, to create heaven and hell on this earth, either by our intelligence or foolishness.
2006-08-27 10:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct marriages are made in heaven , but we mistake it to perform on earth, it must be performed in heaven only . you may have courtship only at earth. Hence ,wait for your heavenly abode and marry in heaven so you will never feel being in hell.
2006-08-27 11:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by johari_mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋