Marriage & Divorce - 9 July 2006

When my ex had custody she claimed both out minor children as dependants. However in March she gave me 50/50 custody because her BF doesn' t want kids(we had been informally exercising such an agreement since Jan, however it became official in March) We have split the time with me having the kids every single weekend, plus me having them the month of July, and extra days. Now, she is giving me full custody and she only wants them one time a month, however she wants to continue to claim them as dependants for next tax year. I feel this is an unfair situation as she was able to claim them when she had custody. I only asked her for about half the support that GA law says she should be paying so that will be about $300, and she will rarely even be seeing the kids. When she had custody I paid $1500 in support had themAT LEAST every other weekend, and she got to claim them for taxes.Who should be the one to claim the kids under the new arrangement? I think we should each claim one this year

2006-07-09 05:59:11 · 6 answers · asked by Sunny And '74 4

Hubby in jail for "touching", told him I would stand by him no matter what, still plan to just not as wife, have been honest about BF relationship, but he is pulling away from me and our son. Says he's given up, has nothing left to come home to, even though we have been together for 18 yrs. Still love him, but cant deal with all the hurt and lies he told me. Says divorce is up to me, but I'm scared that if I do he will stay away from his son, too, and I dont think that is right. Son has been through enough with this whole thing. I dont want to hurt anyone, but I cant keep hurting either.

2006-07-09 05:58:56 · 43 answers · asked by Caspers Princess 1

Please Help Me I really need help!

2006-07-09 05:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by Star 2

my mother in law is always telling me how to raise my daughter and me and my hubby can't stand it. she tells me not to listen to the doc and she gets info of the net, she also always butts into me and my hubbys marrige. how can i tell her to stop?

2006-07-09 05:39:28 · 6 answers · asked by jojo 2

I have been with my bf for 4 years. But he started to love myspace lots since a year ago. He didnt even tell me he had myspace. He flirted so much with the girls, telling them he's single, he wants to be with them :( and so many other sweet words...
i caught him three times already, he just kept getting another secret one again and again.. i don't know what to do...why can't he just stop flirting with girls online?!??:( is it so difficult!?!

2006-07-09 05:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My soon to be ex has a habit of lying just to cover up whatever nonsense he is up to. Been cheating me a couple of times too and when confronted, still comes up with pathetic lies. Why cant they just tell the truth for once?

2006-07-09 05:17:54 · 47 answers · asked by DiL 3

Okay I asked this yesterday so sorry for repeat question. Everyone said a rush of emotions with a sord of scared feeling was an anxiety attack because of my stress and pending divorce but failed to see the first part of my question when I think of someone else I can't see at the moment NOT my ex.

Is it still an anxiety attack?

2006-07-09 05:05:01 · 4 answers · asked by JustWant2B 5

I have been married for 9 years. My husband has partied for many years, leaving me and his kids behind. I have caught him is some very weird circumstances with one of my girlfriends/ employees, which he finally admitted to trying to pursue her. Says he was in lust w/ her. She also, married and says she didn't think anything of his flirting and so on. Longer story, but for now. I have slowly been falling out of love him and I don't even enjoy having sex with him at all. If I do give in he treats me like nothing for 3 days, then he's sweet as pie until the next time, then nothing again, gets old. He truelly looks so happy drinking and hanging out with his friends. he drinks swears and talks crap and seems truely happy, then when he is with me and our kids, he lays around and only participates if I complain until I am so fed up, then he kisses my butt. I do honestly think about what it would be like to meet someone that likes time with thier family and not always have to beg for i

2006-07-09 04:51:05 · 20 answers · asked by momof4 1

2006-07-09 04:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by Naomi 3

The mom is always very nice to me and she's divorced.

2006-07-09 04:46:16 · 14 answers · asked by Big Eric 2

I have benn with my husband for 10 years and he has noticed that I have become more freaky naughty in bed ,I really enjoy sex with my husband but also I like to experiment is that wrong ?

2006-07-09 04:44:03 · 9 answers · asked by E.M. 4

2006-07-09 04:43:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 04:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by pandora the cat 5

2006-07-09 04:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by Attorney2be 1

I think that I am attractive I go to the gym 5 days a week and have 2 kids and my husband does'nt even notice the changes a women needs to hear that she is beautiful I need everyone's honest oppinion........

2006-07-09 04:34:43 · 32 answers · asked by E.M. 4

2006-07-09 04:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by ijcboucher 1

have to do is sign it and wait for it to be issued a Court date & I will be Divorced ..MY Question is do I have to Accept , what is Offered in it as In settlement offer ?? because it is not exactly what I agreed to bout 2 months back. I live in Michigan just thought I'd let you know , incase laws are different.I don't know what to do.Please Help ! Thank You

2006-07-09 04:23:43 · 27 answers · asked by Shelley 2

but she tell me she trying to falll back but not promising me anything what should i do? and she mother of my child

2006-07-09 04:05:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A wealthy aged man is in love and wants to marry a girl his daughters age?He is ready to divorce his wife.The girl is not happy his getting divorced as she has told the old men.Well if the man is determined to marry what must this girl do in that case?Plzzz help

2006-07-09 04:04:18 · 15 answers · asked by kahuna_khazana 2

2006-07-09 04:02:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very seriously thinking of separating from my husband. History long to sumarize. We both care for each other but live like brother and sister. We have two children (12 and 9). We have a very unbalanced financial situation (most assets under his name). He is extremely busy with work, so no time to waste on personal issues. Been together 20 years. Sex life quite miserable. We both know what fatal attraction love means (but we did not live it together - I mean, I was attracted to him, but him not to me). He has lots of qualities but, like anybody, not easy to live with. In his case: tensed, cold, rigid, "emotionally handicaped" (? :-) ).
If you were that guy, but also just being a man, what is it you want to hear, not hear, when your wife suggests separation is the best way forward?
(U need to know he suggested separation 4 months ago, but I refused, still hoping we can make this work. In the meanwhile his mid-life-crisis affair ended and he has not taken any clear line). IDs? Tks

2006-07-09 03:55:39 · 35 answers · asked by Claire 4

i have had my fun and am ready to settle down. where are the good men at? is church a good option and will they believe that i am a good girl and not a sinner? other suggestions please!

2006-07-09 03:54:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 03:52:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Older men date younger women all the time and they are looked at like they have won an olympic gold medal. Older women who date/marry younger men are called cradle robbers? WHY? Plus what age difference is considered to be to much?

2006-07-09 03:40:56 · 40 answers · asked by justhinking 2

2006-07-09 03:32:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 03:10:55 · 15 answers · asked by rolly a 1

I have been married 17 years and have 2 children.

I found out last week about an affair my wife had that began about 8 years ago and lasted about a year. I asked her and she admitted it to me. It all began on a 'girl's weekend' and continued during subsequent girl's weekends. I knew that something was going on at the time but accepted her explanations and denials.

We separated 5 years ago and got back together after a year. She knows I dated while we were separated. She told me that she did not date.

I found out about her affair on a Friday (a week ago) and was extremely hurt. The following Monday she asked me if she could go on a girl's weekend with the two girls that she went with when her affair started. I told her that I didn't think it was appropriate because they OBVIOUSLY accepted her behavior [affair] as they were there when it began and while it continued. One of the other girls is divorced and now living with a guy she met on one of the same "girl's weekends."

2006-07-09 03:06:17 · 20 answers · asked by intheholycity 2

now she wants me to buy her a car so she can get around, and she is still in his house. what do you think?

2006-07-09 03:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by eric h 1

An authority figure to whom you have to be accountable

Your "boss"

Why or why not

2006-07-09 02:35:56 · 19 answers · asked by DalDrWill 1

i find that american civilisation is too new and they thought work hard enjoy all means all sexual pleasures and no control. finally now they have started realising there is no peace. marriages have to be a family affair. not just a girl likes boy or vice versa , live toghther have all fun and then get married and break away. stop all this young generation. learn from INDIA. A country of 5000years civilisation.

2006-07-09 02:35:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous