I have been with my bf for 4 years. But he started to love myspace lots since a year ago. He didnt even tell me he had myspace. He flirted so much with the girls, telling them he's single, he wants to be with them :( and so many other sweet words...
i caught him three times already, he just kept getting another secret one again and again.. i don't know what to do...why can't he just stop flirting with girls online?!??:( is it so difficult!?!
2006-07-09 05:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sweetheart--my old daddy used to tell me that it didn't matter where you got your appetite as long as you ate at home.
2006-07-09 05:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
sure it would be easy to stop, except he doesn't want to, that is obvious so why aren't you seeing it? he doesn't care that it hurts you, he doesn't even care that he's been caught 3 times, he's still doing it and he's going to continue to do it, why? because he wants to and because you didn't leave him when you caught him the first 3 times so why should he? yes 4 years is a long time, but its nothing compared to a lifetime of putting up with being treated like this. if he's flirting online and saying those things, he's doing it in real life too. quit asking yourself why he doesn't stop, you already know the answer to that, start asking yourself why you are still with a guy that is telling every other girl on the planet that he's single and he can't wait to meet them.
2006-07-09 12:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, he is just a boyfriend, I am going through my hubby of 9 years, flirting with women and we have 4 small children. I am still debating of separating, but my kids are happy besides us fighting all the time. I don't want them grown asking why we stayed together all those years if we didn't love each other like that. Hubby always knows when to kiss butt though, when I am to my breaking point. Just know you are not married and hopefully you don't have any kids yet with him. There are better guys out there. If this bothers you when your just boyfriend/girlfriend, it does get worse when your married, a liscense that you will never leave. Then they really start walking all over you. I hope the best for you, but ask yourself if you want to wonder for the rest of your life if you could have been sincerely loved. Good luck!
2006-07-09 12:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by momof4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he;s doing that online and keeping it a secret, then he's probably doing it for real too. i hate to say that to you, but from a guys point of view, that a def. possiblity. you might want to get out of that situation before you really get hurt.
whats his myspace url? if you find that out, send it to me, and i'll have my sister flirt with him. i'll send you an email and let ya know if he's looking to cheat on you or not.
2006-07-09 12:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by whatbumpnname 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a different b/f. After four years he is doing this? How many more good years of your own do you want to throw after the bad ones that are starting now?
2006-07-09 22:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is why do you keep putting up with it? He's a chronic flirt and given the right opportunity, and maybe he's already had those, he'll cheat on you and lie to cover it up.
2006-07-09 12:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't tell you he had myspace how did you find out?? Sounds like your sticking your nose where it has no business being!! I think your bf needs to start looking for a better, less nosey gf!!
2006-07-09 12:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too good to put up with this. He obviously has no regard for you or your feelings, because if he did, he would have never started doing it to begin with. Kick him to the curb, enjoy being single for awhile, and then meet someone who is genuinely a good man...they DO exist!
2006-07-09 12:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by ckmc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's meeting up with them whats the problem? Is it just online?? You can always create a bogus account and trap him. I would saying he is ot plottin to cheat. you may need to dump him... 4 years or not.
2006-07-09 12:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Im just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monitor his activity on myspace
2006-07-09 12:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by D192 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say ditch the guy... he definelty isn't worth keeping, since if he does it on the pc he probably does it in real life as well... stand up for yourself and rip his rear about it... and then tell him C-YA!
2006-07-09 12:26:29 · answer #11 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋