now she wants me to buy her a car so she can get around, and she is still in his house. what do you think?
2006-07-09 03:04:56 · 11 answers · asked by eric h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No tell her to get the man she is staying with to get her a car. That is so stupid. She is playing you. And I think you should think that maybe she has been seeing him behind your back to be able to easily step a foot into his door. This man is toooo familar with your wife. She is playing you.
2006-07-09 03:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as your wife you need to be more honest here Eric! I didnt want you to buy me a car. How the heck can I expect you to buy me a car when you arent even going to be able to live in the house soon because you cant afford the bills. We had 2 vehicles and you chose to junk one of them and leave me with nothing. I never moved to his house. My belongings werent there. All I had was me, my son, and the clothes on my back. I needed to get out of the house because you and I were fighting constantly. When I came back to get a few more things of mine to move to moms basement you decided to come home and start raising hell so I just packed everything up and left again. The only place I had to go was back to his house. There was nothing going on. I was just staying in a safe place, away from all the fighting, and looking out for me and my son. I have been telling you for a long time that things in the house are getting ugly and I wanted to get out on my own so that we can have some space so that we can make things work. You messed that up by accusing me of everything that I didnt do and by making a failed marriage appear to be only my fault. Im not afraid to admit guilt. I was wrong in a lot of the things I did - but so were you. We are just two people that arent meant to be together in that kind of way. I thank you for posting this question just so you can try to make me look like a complete fool. Thats nice of you and all but I have never heard of revenge getting anyone very far. I hope you are happy! Your soon to be EX wife...
2006-07-12 16:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by nicolenewman9952 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NO! She can find some other place to stay or you can. Staying at another man's house is not an option. Buying her a car isn't even on the radar.
Are you seeking counseling? If not, you'll want to. I guarantee an unbiased 3rd party will tell her and you the same.
2006-07-09 03:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by intheholycity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no. Under the circumstances it doesn't sound like the thing to do. I thought about it and if my husband went to stay at another womans house while we were having problems and then asked me to buy him a vehicle I would have to think of myself as stupid if I did. I would tell him to get a job and be self supportive. After all, he left me. I would feel as though he were taking advantage of me. I would try to work things out first with her and find out where she stands in the rebuilding of your marriage. If I were going to buy any car it would be a good little used one with minor investment in it. Under $500. That way she gets her car and you're not out too much.Then that way she can never say "I asked you to buy me a car and you didn't" Good Luck in working things out.
2006-07-09 03:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she left you and is with another man,file for a divorce and give her nothing,Let the other guy provide and she should also get a job.
2006-07-09 04:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa how can u live with that!!
i bet u somethings happening between those 2,
Buy her everything she wants, give her all ur attention and all ur love and care, she will feel like she'd want u more
i hope this helps, i know it sucks but i really couldn't think of anything else!! sorry
2006-07-09 03:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her good bye and good riddance. Let the other man buy her a car. Divorce her.
2006-07-09 05:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's made her choice. Let HIM buy her a car.
2006-07-09 03:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not!! Is she romantically involved with this guy, it really doesn't matter, if she was interested in working things out with you then she would be home with you. Leave her alone and move on.. Good Luck
2006-07-09 03:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you,,,,, as far as you getting her a car tell her to go to hell an let the guy she is livin with buy her one
2006-07-09 12:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by featherman_65018 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋