Marriage & Divorce - 9 July 2006

2006-07-09 15:15:50 · 20 answers · asked by helplesslynluv 1

Both being matured adults and in age.
Seen/experienced almost everything that life has to offer.
Being just satisfying human needs, is it mature thinking and behavior to have casual sex between matured individuals. Knowing the limits it leads to. Knowing what is being expected and not to. Knowing what to expect and not to but just enjoying life’s most intimate and private moments between the two mature adults. Satisfying emotional needs rather than physical.
During the “affair” knowing and respecting each another and to avoid the emotional headaches associated with and that such normally brings and results. But just enjoying intimate and private moments and sharing emotional needs. Is it mature thinking and behavior.

2006-07-09 15:15:13 · 8 answers · asked by superyoyogirl 3

2006-07-09 15:08:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is into anything and everything whether its men,women,or animals , says either you have sex with them all or I want a divorce. I think its time to pull the plug but he made me quit my job and now I'm broke and hes rich what do I do?

2006-07-09 15:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are in a bad relationship, do you think cheatin g is wrong?

2006-07-09 15:02:18 · 17 answers · asked by Missy 1

2006-07-09 15:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What advice would you give a newlywed on how to have a successful marriage?
And, how long have you been married?

2006-07-09 14:59:02 · 18 answers · asked by GD-Fan 6

Is is normal for a husband to neglect and reject his wife after 10 1/2 years and 2 kids later , sometimes I just jump on his bones for attendtion is this normal ??????

2006-07-09 14:56:47 · 8 answers · asked by E.M. 4

2006-07-09 14:49:28 · 2 answers · asked by HeyRC 2

Me and my husband have been married for 4 years now and have a 4 year old daughter. We love each other and everything but it seems like he never wants to be around me. I am constantly telling him we need to do more stuff together like watch movies and go out. But all he wants to do is go into the opposite room and watch nascar and sports. It was not like this the first couple of years we been married, but it has gotten worse and it seems that we keep on getting further apart from each other. It has gotten to a point where we hardly have a sex life, i am always the one that has to start it, and when very seldomly he does, he falls asleep before anything gets started. Is there anything i can do to get him to pay more attention to me? Ive tried talking to him about it and everything and he thinks we spend enough time together.

2006-07-09 14:44:10 · 17 answers · asked by Linds 3

2006-07-09 14:40:31 · 7 answers · asked by Malcolm uses Xbox 360 Avatar 7

i have to boys,one is mine the other is not. im raising them both, no legal papers signed with ex . they have been with me for 9 months. she took them both today, and won't return them need some help please.

2006-07-09 14:38:32 · 7 answers · asked by TO FAST TO FURIOUS 3

2006-07-09 14:37:55 · 33 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

and my wife? what does she wear? In India it's only gold and diamond jewelry, silver is considered, or rather not considered at all even by the really very poor.

Do I have to buy a new car to drive off to our second honeymoon in a silver car? Mines white, her's is gold?

and where-same place where we had our first one, or some new exotic place in India-don't have the time to go abroad next couple of months.

Some of the ideas that my friends have been shooting off are really like out of this world.
Any answers?

2006-07-09 14:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by Starreply 6

love sex!!?
I'm 18.I really like my boyfriend alot. We've been going out for about 7 months. My dude is so attractive, everytime I see him I bascially want to jump right on him. I lost my virginity to him and we been going at it like wild animals ever since.Every single time I talk to him we always end up talking about sex after the first 15 mins of talking. I also like watching flicks!! He's says that I'am a freak, but dont you men like your women like that?

2006-07-09 14:31:00 · 5 answers · asked by lady 1

2006-07-09 14:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by bebe1028 2

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now. We live together. He's 34, I'm 25. First it was how I was spending my money, then it was how I spent my time, now it's how much wine I drink. I feel like I'm 18 again and living under my parents roof. I can't pour myself a glass of wine without him giving me a look now. Last night he woke up to find me with a glass of wine, watching TV. It was after midnight but I was just trying to get some "me" time in. He was pissed at me. I felt like I was just caught drinking under age by my mother. Damn I'm 26 years old, old enough to drink, old enough to makle my own decisions. I feel like he's taking my youth away. I sacrafice every other weekend to spend with him and his daughter too. Can't I be treated like an adult here? I'm not wreckless, I don't drink and drive, I don't cheat, I just like to have a glass or two of wine here and there. He's watching and judging my every move. What should I do? As you can tell I'm frustrated! Thanks

2006-07-09 14:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible for a father to forfeit his rights to extended summer visitaion with his child by not exercising that right at the beginning of the alloted time (as outlined in the divorce decree). For example, if the father is allowed (by provision in the decree) the entire month of June with his child and he does not make any attempt to pick up the child or notify of his intent to pick up the child until June 15th - has he forfeited those rights? or has he just reduced the time he will have (i.e. he can't have a whole month from the day he picks up his child but he can have the remainder of the time allotted - 15 days)?

2006-07-09 14:11:39 · 1 answers · asked by michaeldagnan 1

i have been married 25 years-since high school. My husband left me to be with a much older woman, she is married also. He has lived with her since i caught them 10 mos ago. Our kids love him and i still love him. He has at times seem like he wants to come home and work on us, and at times no.
No one has ever met her (family), wants no one to come out there, he does take care of us (hasnt missed a payment or abandon us) but lately hes very irritated, says dont keep asking when hes coming back home, he needs space, his cell phone got cut off, her house is being foreclosed on soon, he says everyone thinks hes living the great life over there, let him work on things, he has to get his self together, ect.
Do i just back all the way off, my feelings are starting to diminish after all this time. I have loved him thru all this and have put up with the pushaway and mixed signals. Why does he stay there and not just come back home to a family that loves him very much? What hold does she have/

2006-07-09 14:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by still hoping for love 1

I've been married 5 yrs. I am very attracted to my wife and she tells me she is attracted to me and she is always telling me how much she loves me and I am very happy about that part of our relationship. BUT she simply doesn't understand or even seem to care about how important sex and eroticism is to me. I've told her how I would LOVE it if she would initiate something out of the blue but it just never happens! I've thought about stepping outside my marriage but don't won't to do that. Is there any solution???

2006-07-09 14:04:37 · 15 answers · asked by ccboy73 1

2006-07-09 14:01:52 · 18 answers · asked by carmelita71 1

My sweetheart and I have great sex together, when we have sex.!!! He is 42 and I am 40 we are really only 5 months apart in age as I will soon be turning 41. I love to make love! I feel like a teenager!! He is very loving and caring, and makes constant enuendos to having sex with me. But when it comes down to it, he goes to sleep!!! When we 1st got together it was nearly everyday.. and boy let me tell you I loved it! I knew this would not last, nice thought, but it was early in the relationship and that kind of sex kinda wanes after awhile and I understand that. But now after 3 years it is maybe 3 times a year( this started after the 1st yr)!!!! Thats NOT COOL! I try all kinds of thing from sexy nighties, to my own enuendos! He gets all excited but always has an excuse for the moment, then later when we retire and I am thinking. Ok here we go he rolls over wants a massage or for me to lightly rub his back.. and off to dreamland he goes! He appologizes, tommorow.. I'm still waiting!!

2006-07-09 13:54:17 · 8 answers · asked by Fancygal 3

A: I'm not sure I understand your problem. Perhaps you've forgotten to cook him a nice meal

2006-07-09 13:52:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 13:51:29 · 11 answers · asked by Jason X 1

She is leaving after 20 years of marriage and 2 great children and I paid for her to get breast augmentation and lift surgery at her request last fall while I was overseas fighting in Iraq. I must say I did not see this divorce comimg but she is also trying to take our business and half of everything else. I want to play nice and be fair for the sake of the kids but I feel like I am getting steamrolled. She has never saved a dime and she has indebted the business while I was away to make it seem worthless even though it cash flowed $140.000 last year. Any ideas. Remember I want to be nice cause crazy as it seems I still love her.

2006-07-09 13:47:22 · 14 answers · asked by trailerparkbadass 1

2006-07-09 13:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 13:06:43 · 35 answers · asked by phil 1

I have been married for over a year now. My husband has his cop friends telling me that he writes this woman from work. He is never late from work, he NEVER goes out, he is never gone long, etc... am I being over-bearing? Am I being insecure? He did cheat when we were engaged... and so I think I havent gotten over that. My biggest problem is that my GUT INSTINCTS say that he is cheating... not totally, but trying to cheat.

2006-07-09 13:03:52 · 22 answers · asked by JOAN L 1

My fiance does not think the baby is his. He is the only person i've been intimate with. Should I wait till the baby is born and hope he realizes it's his or call off the engagment.

2006-07-09 13:02:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had some hard times last year. But we made owr way through it. I am 50 and he is 40. I dont look my age. I try to take care of my self. He is not working, I support us for now. I hope things will get better in time. But it hurts my feelings.

2006-07-09 12:52:41 · 14 answers · asked by kitycheeks 1