2006-07-09 14:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by bebe1028 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was talking with her and making all kind of plans. Then when I was being nosy one day and checked his email and found out he had a blackplanet account. He says he was confused at the time and did not know what to do. I was suppose to go to my mom's house that weekend and he had plans to meet up with this chick but, of course I found out and that ended that. I wonder if I did not find out and went home with that weekend what would of happen. Would he had stopped and realized that he was wrong. I'm now having a hard time getting over this and I am ready to ditch his ***. Please advise.
2006-07-09 14:30:28 · update #1
I read most of the answers other people gave you....You on the other hand are asking people what you should do?
are you still with him?....If so, Why? you obviously don't really mind or you would have put him on the curb when you found his e-mail....or do you just like the drama?
2006-07-09 15:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and ask him about the truth. If he has a valid reason forgive him but if you sense that he is only making an alibi, it is for you to decide. Leave him due to infidelity or forgive and forget.
2006-07-09 14:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you found what?
If your man had any respect for you, he would not be trying to hook up with an on-line crush. Even if its a quickie-ain't cool.
Unfortunately, it is up to you to give him a verbatim. You or the on-line crush.
2006-07-09 14:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by SLOWTHINKER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot the rest of the story
2006-07-09 14:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by msknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then u talk to him and ask him want is going on with u and that girl u met online and if he says nothing there is somethin
2006-07-09 14:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by ashleybaby_nguyen94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their must be something in relationship that he is not getting . why else would he even talk to her that's what happens on the web i know
2006-07-09 14:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your plans to divorce court plain and simple
2006-07-09 14:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he was making plans with her, he will find a way to be with her. see if he will agree to counseling
2006-07-09 15:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by buttseyeluv43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pissd off. I would ask what the hell he thinks he is doing.
2006-07-09 14:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.........................ask your man about this tell him u dont like it (if u dont) but if u dont mind then ask him to make plans wit both of u if it was my man doing this then i would tell him 2 stop or it is OVER
2006-07-09 14:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋