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2006-07-09 14:37:55 · 33 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Long answer: Because it's kind of nice to have officially ended one relationship before beginning another.
AND, if a divorce is not complete the potential girlfriend may feel that there is still hope for the marriage and, out of respect for the committment of marriage, may not want to get in the way of a possible reconciliation until it is decidedly over.
Short anwer: Morals

2006-07-09 14:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 2 · 3 0

separated = still married
the day before someone is married = single
the day after the divorce = single again
separation is a transitional stage in which both soon-to-be ex's are re-arranging their lives. With this and the fact that emotionally it can be a very painful time, means that women with their head on straight should not date separated guys. No matter how long or how short the marriage was and for whatever the reason(s) are for the divorce.....waiting until a guy goes through the seasons of a year is, in my opinion, a healthy start at dating again.

2006-07-09 14:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by answerb4midnight 3 · 0 0

It's almost like having a fling while married.You guys usually go back to your wife's.The wife is hurt,mad or what ever and it can get real messy. It's not easy to build a new relationship on the ruins of a separated one.We need to have a good solid foundation to begin with to build on.It's risky,more so than trying to start out with a new single person.There is still baggage being carried and not dealt with yet also.

2006-07-09 14:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0 0

1) Because he is still married
2) Because he might still be in love with his wife
3) Because there is a big chance he is confused and has no idea what he is doing, what he wants, etc
4) Because no one wants to start caring for someone and then they hear "I am going back to my wife."
5) Because they don't want to be the other woman
6) Because they don't want to feel like they have to compete to keep him
7) Because it is just to difficult so why would they want to get into tat when there are single men? ...

Good luck and divorce if you are sure that everything is over with your wife. It will help your dating life.

2006-07-09 14:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mana 5 · 0 0

do you want the true answer? Well because like my husband he told me after we separated that he needed the time to thinks over. After 5 months he started dating someone. He yet was playing with me and her. He promised me that she was a mistake and that he was angry at me and that he was sorry and that she was gone. Big lie he fell in love with her and asked her back while playing with my head and heart. He told her that I was the one that could not let go. She then called me and started a war and she included my children all because he could not be honest with either one of us. She has decided to stay with him while me and my kids feel disposed of. All the family is involved in our business and the pain is sometimes so hard. I have now in preparations of filing for divorce.

2006-07-09 15:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by carmelita71 1 · 1 0

U can start up a relationship purely under no circumstances introduce them to absolutely everyone till u imagine it is severe adequate. see you later as u do not ignore u have youthful toddlers they received't resent u. learn from ur ex and make positive u do not do what she did. If ur gonna bypass out w/ someone get a sitter even as they're in mattress and bypass. bypass even as they're in college. That way u could have the time they're living house committed to them nevertheless. U could have interesting and nevertheless be an effective dad :)

2016-11-30 23:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by sturtevant 3 · 0 0

Because they are dating a married man. They do not want to invest time and emotions in someone that may end up going back to his wife.

2006-07-09 14:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 1 0

Because there is a high liklihood you will go back to your ex. No one likes to get hurt! So why put yourself in that position? I hope you find someone though, honestly. I am sure you are a good person....but this is what I think about your question.

2006-07-09 14:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by MNM0103 3 · 0 0

because the other guy could be a crazy and very jealouse and try to kill them. your not fully divorced and that could cause some seriouse problems and most of all the fact that their is to much emotional baggage their.

2006-07-09 14:40:43 · answer #9 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0 0

because you are in a lurch nad can go back to your wife
you are either to afraid to get a divorce
or are wanting to go back to your wife
either way makes for a poor choice in dating

2006-07-09 14:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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