Marriage & Divorce - 9 July 2006

Troy... whats the "mule" part stand for.. Hung like a horse reference or , that your a Jack azz lol..

2006-07-09 20:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by brwneyedgrl 7

2006-07-09 20:04:18 · 16 answers · asked by midas 2

just want to hear your opinions?

2006-07-09 20:01:38 · 16 answers · asked by balot_22F 1

After 10+ years of being faithful to my wife i am asking myself should I cheat on her? Our sex life has gone from once a day, to maybe once a Month. I can handle once a week, anything less than that and I start feeling rejected, unloved and generaly just pissy and unhappy! I love my wife, and the prospect of cheating on her makes me very frustrated! I have asked her about why she isnt interested in sex anymore, she does the reverse phsycolgical BS at me, telling me its me not her. Its not me, I am having to masterbate to keep my sanity. I do not want to GIVE UP SEX! for the marraige, I have compromised on how much sex, I am at a loss. What do you think?

2006-07-09 19:53:55 · 77 answers · asked by amara 2

Should I get divorce with my wife? She cannot stand me and I cannot stand her. It would be easier if we were two people, but we have a son. I feel sad that my son has to see his parents fighting. And I feel sad that my son won't have both his parents together if I got divorce with his mother. Saturday night, she was very rude and saying hurtful words to me; I took it without argue back, but afterward I felt so hurt and depressed. We could still hurt each other by mean words though we are now living separated by pacific oceans. I don't want to get back to her and she doesn't want to get back to me. I want to get a divorce, but I am so afriad that I would regret later because my son had to grow up without both parents with him. I don't know what to do is best for my son. Well, I should put it this way: the best one is my son having loving parents and the worst on is having terrible parents or not parents. I want the best for him, but I don't think I can. And I feel very sad.

2006-07-09 19:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by Lune 2

My husband emotionally, mentally abused me for last 5 years of marriage. I finally had it and I am divorcing him. But the more I thought about it, I realize that he was just using me for his financial needs and his abusive needs. We already divided money 50/50. But now I feel really used and abused and I want to punish him. What can I do?

2006-07-09 19:48:37 · 17 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

We have been together for over 3 years, but we are pretty young. We are both almost 23 and graduated from college in May. We have steady jobs, and plan on keeping our finances separate (except for splitting grocery bills, and stuff like that).

We have been sure of our plans for several months now, but now I feel nervous because our move-in date is coming up.

Also, I kind of feel anxious because I would like to be engaged, because I would feel more secure. But maybe this is because I watch too many wedding shows and see too many engagement ring advertisements...haha

I'm not sure what is the right thing in this situation because I think it's a little ridiculous to be engaged at 22/23, but I am a Christian and feel guilty for living together before marriage. I know I can't live without him, I just want some sort of guarantee that he feels our relationship is as permanent as I feel it is...

Please give me your honest advice, even if it's bad news!!!

2006-07-09 19:20:41 · 19 answers · asked by Julia 3

2006-07-09 19:19:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex gf, )a single mother) have been broken up for 2 months. Weve gone through this about 4 times.. and i said enough finally. I have not contacted her, for i respect myself, and we cut it off after every time it started because i cant deal with her shady attitude. if she doesnt want to be true, and respect me.. why does she call to still have sex and want to hang all over me for a couple days? i am NOT GOING TO CALL HER BACK!I am doing a good job in getting over her. ...... i just want to know why she does it.??? This cycle, repetitvely?

Thanks!

2006-07-09 19:16:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has a lusting problem. He said he will prove it to me this time.
Do they ever change. I was married to him for 7 months. Woke him up when I left. Now he wants to change. Help!

2006-07-09 19:14:57 · 15 answers · asked by aneulife 1

I am 23 years old, hondsome, middle income, romantic...lol

2006-07-09 19:06:38 · 18 answers · asked by naeemjan20 1

I am curious. Did any of you meet someone from this website and actually dated the person? Did that led to marriage or not?

2006-07-09 18:58:55 · 17 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5

2006-07-09 18:52:51 · 22 answers · asked by OO7Bond 1

I am talking about the kind of love that lasts a lifetime. What are the characteristics that the couple need? What is a healthy love relationship about?

2006-07-09 18:41:15 · 8 answers · asked by Ambrosia 3

Just want to know cuz it's in my near future.

2006-07-09 18:32:48 · 15 answers · asked by Lissa 2

I've been sexually active with my husband for six years, and two years living together as a husband and wife. Since we were dating, I found out that he was watching porno on my computer. I confronted him and the first time it happenned, he apologized. But it kept happening. Now he still does it, but hides it from me. I really don't know what to think. I am not an ugly or unattrative person, and I'm ten years younger than him.

2006-07-09 18:17:46 · 23 answers · asked by Chikis 1

2006-07-09 18:14:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family thinks that I do not make good decisions for myself and they think they know what is best for me. I know that The man I love is my best friend and I love him unconditionally. There is not a minute that goes by that I don't think about him. I have never felt this kind of love before. We know what the other is thinking and we always talk about everything we never yell. We have known each other for over two years and our relationship has just gotten stronger over time and I know that I am doing the right thing I am the happest when I am with him. I feel that he has helped me find a part of me that I thought I had lost. I do know that My family will not approve of my choice to marry him because I think they look at the outside and not the inside of people and they are blind to my feelings and can not see that he makes me happy. I am going to marry him and I am going to be happy because in the long run this is my life and I have to live with my decisions that I make.

2006-07-09 18:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by nyrwldstdrms 2

He is a huge hunter and fisher and thinks that by having a baby it will take away from him. We argue about it a lot. This is all I have asked for, for almost 2 years now. He told me that after we were married for a year that we would start trying, well that didn't happen and it still hasn't. it's just really irratating and bugs me a lot. Everyone around me including all my friends are having kids and here I am left out in the cold. I don't want a baby cuz all my friends are having them I just want one to call my own. I'm ready to take that big step and he isn't cuz he's not ready to give up things for HIMSELF!! Just wondering what other people thought about the situation and if I'm being to pushy about the whole thing. It's just something I dream and pray about everyday that he'll change his mind.

2006-07-09 18:05:39 · 49 answers · asked by brandi 1

2006-07-09 18:05:19 · 12 answers · asked by pink_tiarra 2

2006-07-09 18:00:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

They were soooooooooo cute together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-09 17:59:43 · 7 answers · asked by Shunsui Kyouraku is 100% MINE!! 6

2006-07-09 17:55:20 · 9 answers · asked by rekha c 3

Did anybody cheat on their husbands?How did you feel after that?

2006-07-09 17:50:04 · 11 answers · asked by yana_k21 2

My ex (we arent divorced *yet*) was very abusive to me. 2 Years ago he vanished with my children and I just found them 4 days ago and they tell me the most horrid stories about things he/his g/f did and things they have seen her doing drugs in the bathroom and abusing them physically. I just got them back finally and we got to my apt this morning. He had dropped them off at his mothers in MS. He is calling me with threats. Do you think the state would help me file for a divorce and grant me a Protective Order from him coming around us until the divorce is final. Im scared to death and am not sure what to do. Suggestions are welcome! Thanks.

2006-07-09 17:48:22 · 16 answers · asked by Desperate in IN 1

They are fighting alot and my Mom is always crying and my Dad tells every body different stories, and I'm in middle school so there's school in the fall, plus my mom and me are lookinng for apts. and have had no luck.

2006-07-09 17:30:36 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley T. 2

It all started almost 3 years ago he came home said he didnt love me anymore so he left me. I took him back after 2 months. then he tells me that he slept with my best friend while we were seperated. i gave him yet again another chance. then i find out he got her pregnant but he didnt know i knew that. i wanted him to tell me but he didnt. so about six months ago i had had enough of the dishonesty. Also, we have children together. He says that he cheated because he thought i did because someone told him i did and i never slept with anyone else but him since we got together. I alos believe there were others but he denis those.

2006-07-09 17:25:31 · 91 answers · asked by Sexy Mama 1

my two children that lives with me wants to stand up to their father and tell people how him and his wife are treating them and that they want to decide when they want to see him.

2006-07-09 17:25:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-09 17:13:26 · 2 answers · asked by jason d 1

I took my wife to Paris as a suprise for valentine's day - and this year I'm suprising her with a trip to Acapulco for her birthday. (Yes, I know I'm whipped - but hey - I'm in love).

2006-07-09 17:10:51 · 6 answers · asked by BigSkyMontana 1