Does married life change the way you see your partner?

Question

Just want to know cuz it's in my near future.

Answer 1

yes it changes; usually for the better though. My aniversary is next month and it's been great. We still talk about how we can't remember what it was like when we dated, and how we're glad we're not dating anymore.

That's just my personal experience though. Take a look at who you're marrying, if you're compatible, and if you're willing to work through the tough stuff. That's what makes it all worth while. Good luck!

Answer 2

Yes. Think through a couple phrases: "It don't mean a thing if you ain't got that ring" and "For better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness or in health, until death."

Marriage is that moment of commitment, where you pledge to each other, your family, your community, and if you are religious your God, that you will be together until death. Before marriage you get to choose -- do I date A or do I date B, do I break up, what do I really want? Marriage means you found what you want, and even if there are rough times you're going to both stick it through.

As a result, couples go through things in marrage that they don't deal with as just a couple -- boring things, practical things, unromantic things, tragedies. It may certainly change the way you see your partner's underwear, or at least how much of it you see. Of course there is a reward for this because it strengthens the relationship, and you get the ultimate security of knowing you have a mate.

It basically intensifies everything. Any fight or harsh word is that much more painful. Any kiss is that much more romantic. It makes good relationships better, and it puts a quick end to bad relationships.

If you're planning a wedding, by the way, don't get so busy or nervous you forget to enjoy it. That's your day to cherish, not the video man's.

Answer 3

I have been married and divorced and I think that if I would have gotten to know him just a little better before we were married then I really don't think that we would have gotten married. I am about to get married again to my best friend. We have known each other for the past two years and I could not be happier he is everything i have ever dreamed of. He is my soul mate and I have seen him through some bad times but all the good that we bring to each other out weighs anything.

Answer 4

Alittle but usually it the typical stuff that most couples go through.. the more comfortable you get the real you starts to show more and more , showing the little quirky things u do stuff that sometimes can annoy the heck out of each other..every so often u find out things u didnt know before like their view on something political that you may have another stance on.. stupid things like that, but nothing that should hinder a marriage....

Answer 5

Oh yes! But it all depends on how you get along with your partner. When you are dating, pay close attention to the things your partner does, and which are the ones that bother you. Those things will not get better or won't change. Make sure you are ready to deal with them.

Answer 6

If you sit around eating and watching tv all the time, then you will change the way you see your partner.

Answer 7

Hopefully you already feel the commitment, mutual respect, friendship, etc that you should when you're married. Best of luck and congrats!

Answer 8

For me I love my husband more now than I ever do. We have been married 6 yrs.

Answer 9

Just don't get fat or pregnant and your partner won't start seeing YOU differently.

Answer 10

Not if you really love them to begin with.