my mother in law is always telling me how to raise my daughter and me and my hubby can't stand it. she tells me not to listen to the doc and she gets info of the net, she also always butts into me and my hubbys marrige. how can i tell her to stop?
2006-07-09 05:39:28 · 6 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her if you want her advice you will ask for it.
2006-07-09 05:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're not from now on being unreasonable in any respect. It wasn't proper of her to only allow you to understand of her plans with out asking first. you could keep her away. it is your baby. you're the mother and what you pick and choose is the biggest. purely tell her that with a house finished of human beings and your mom having a baby care business enterprise contained in the living house that there is purely no longer sufficient room. tell her that you're going to love to have her stay in the course of the weekends. purely attempt to be well mannered about it as plausible yet also be direct. do not provide her any thanks to get round what you pick. in case you pick to blame your mom somewhat, it is fantastic. She may take it better that way. yet you could also pick to state that you look ahead to some time on my own including your pick toddler besides.
2016-11-30 22:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by ambach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to grow a pair and tell her. If he won't, then I recommend Susette Hayden Elgin "Vebal Self Defense" books - she's actually got an overbearing mother-in-law scenario in one of the books! Actually these books would be good for you to read in any case ... she describes how to maintain your position in your household with minimal offense to the MIL.
2006-07-09 06:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your husband's mother, so he should be the one to tell her to back off.
If she continues, just limit your time around her. When she asks why, have your husband explain to her that she doesn't respect you two.
If you tell her, she'll just resent you and will think you're not being good to her son.
2006-07-09 05:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mama Pastafarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you are not married to her so she needs to stay outta ya'llz business. if you are married than nobody can tell you what to do anymore including her. Tell her that when you want her advice you will ask for it otherwise stay out.
2006-07-09 05:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by texasqueen24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to respect you, decisions and your family.. if she cant then she wont be a part of it....
be blunt and to the point....
2006-07-09 05:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋