Marriage & Divorce - 27 June 2006

Well I've been pessimist all my life and I was fine with that. 5 years ago I've met a girl and we lived together until she left 2 years ago. Since then my life went down the drain. I think I am obsessed with her and keep on trying to win her back when even I know that's impossible. I tried anti-depressants, another girls, church going, new friends etc. Few weeks ago my dad passed away and instead of thinking about him I keep thinking about her all the time. My life looks so dark that I just listen to sad songs and think about suicide. Is there any other way? Or my life is already gone?

2006-06-27 11:49:12 · 7 answers · asked by fallen_mongol 2

can disability be used to pay alimony..if yes or no please provide your source, web sight, book or state reg............ i'm in the state of FLORIDA

2006-06-27 11:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

Would you marry a man who says he is in love with you but looks longingly at other women? If a man is truly head over heals in love will he look at other women?

2006-06-27 11:39:34 · 14 answers · asked by c f 2

have been on to csa (they laughed at me cos he is not on any inland revenue list, or electoral list have given them registration numbers and where he lives everything u think, done everything but he and they do nothing,i have good kids that need their dad, moneys not importent. quality time is thats all i want, i just feel this government lets us down

2006-06-27 11:39:31 · 7 answers · asked by SALLY N 2

2006-06-27 11:38:27 · 4 answers · asked by tina d 1

If you are married, do think a little flirting on the computer is wrong?

2006-06-27 11:37:56 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3

I split from my husband in Feb, but when ever he come's to see our daughter (who's 2) he ends up shouting & swearing at me in front of her.. I have asked him not to, & even she doesnt want to go to him whan he is like this, but i still try to get her to kiss him etc... should i give up & let her make her own mind up if she wants to go out with him??

2006-06-27 11:31:33 · 29 answers · asked by friendly chick 1

sad. I really care about her but she would not stop with her negativity. I wish there was a way to make things better. She emailed me and told me that she loves me as a sister. But I have to choose my marriage... Help! I'm sad

2006-06-27 11:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by lifeislove 3

I just want to know if faithful true honest good guys exist! Those that believe in romance, fidelity, and being respectful to their gal. I'm I dreaming?

2006-06-27 11:29:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-27 11:27:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have 3 kids, with the same man, we were married for 16 years but was very controlling when he left he told me he would never pay for their upkeep, he has not paid income tax for 17 years, csa cant find him, i have arthritis , have 2 jobs to pay for me and my kids, he earns bundles yet i never get a penny. Actually he has 5 kids, my stepchildren who he never paid for either and they are now 17 and 18 , yet they still come and see me but not there dad. is it a case of what goes around comes around ?

2006-06-27 11:25:15 · 17 answers · asked by SALLY N 2

It started when I told him his songs(he's in a band) turned me on. At first it was so hot.Now I hear his music being played everywhere! So when he comes to bed to do me, I don't want to hear his songs again!! How can I tell him without hurting his feelings??BTW, he's not obsessed with himself, I think he'll just be insulted and think I don't get turned on by listening to him sing!

2006-06-27 11:23:56 · 25 answers · asked by FASHIONISTAMOM 2

a neighbor(i rarely talk to) told me my best friend goes over my house while i am gone and talks to my husband with THE DOOR CLOSED. Should i say something? i don't know if they are lying or not. Who should i trust? or What should i do?

2006-06-27 11:14:01 · 20 answers · asked by SweetS 2

We are thinking of gettin hitched. But will he have the right to live here with me

2006-06-27 11:09:39 · 3 answers · asked by Paddy 1

I caught my husband cheating on me on fathers day, he came home packed all his things then left. He has not been home since. I call him on his cell and he tells me we are finished, we have been togther for 8 years. We have a 2 year old daughter. He is the only man I have ever been with, we met when we were both 16 years old. My question is, I only work weekends i started working more now that this has happened but my rent is due next week and he won't help me pay it. I have no place to go with my daughter, I am wondering if anyone knows where i can get some help? to pay my rent?

2006-06-27 11:05:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-27 11:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do guys look for in a friend. My husband says I am not a friend to him and I should be but won't tell me what he wants from a friend. I listen to him, but always wind up asking questions when I don't understand what he is talking about. My questions seem to annoy him and he says I should just listen so he can get if off his chest. Should I listen without asking questions so I don't have a clue? What other characteristics do guys need/want in a friend?

2006-06-27 10:56:15 · 6 answers · asked by Jill M 3

Being a married man over 40 years old, I want to spice up my sex life. I say my sex life because my wife seems to have hit the wall. She is not interested in experimenting at all. No fantasy sharing, dressing sexy to get guys to drool. She justs wants straight sex once in awhile. My libido is usually in overdirve and I am thinking I need something more but I would never want to hurt her. Please any suggestions would be appreciated.

2006-06-27 10:56:11 · 13 answers · asked by letsbnoty 1

He wants everyone to come and have a private stripper at his apartment or go to a strip club. His girlfriend is devasted. She thinks it is degrading to women and especially to her. I'm afraid that it is a big enough issue to split them up after a 4 year relationship. What is your opinion of what my son should do?

2006-06-27 10:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by Life is great! 4

he walked out on u a year ago, no note no anything.A year later calls looking for you saying how much he loves you.Comes back from another state.you get remarried again then one day u see your phone bill and notice numbers from the state he was at.you find out he has been talking to another women.But he thinks it is ok because they met in church and are only friends.But the whole part is why? does he call her when you leave for work if nothing is going on with them and he has no feelings for this women?

2006-06-27 10:38:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-27 10:33:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-27 10:30:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

in our marriage. I cut her off once before for her negativity and telling me not to marry my husband and she did not even know him. She also told me to abort my child. I did not speak to her for a couple of months and she apoligized and I forgave her. Bottom line, my husband says it's either her or him. Of course I'm going to choose my husband but how to I tell my firend? She does not take no for an answer.

2006-06-27 10:23:56 · 18 answers · asked by lifeislove 3

Here's the problem. Married for about 5 years. One child. Prior to giving birth...good communication, honesty and great sex. Since birth of child (3yrs old) maybe 10 times [sex], no communication, no intimacy [kissing, hugging].

Could any males tell me what's going on? He is depressed (clinically...will NOT go to a doctor). I've asked about marriage counseling...NO WAY. Cheating? I think he's on the verge. I am trying...really I am. Trying to not fuss, argue or fight, but I'm fed up. I don't want to cheat..but I really need some sex. It's been a year and I can't take it anymore. I am thinking about a legal separation and then divorce. I just want to make the right decision. Hubby is adopted, with serious issues as far as family and marriage. Having the child gave him his first "real" blood relative..so maybe he's done with me?

2006-06-27 10:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

I have been through the candles, lotions, bubbles baths and all that crap, I really want to get down to it and get my lady to scream. Ladies, what could your man do to get you all worked into a lather....?

2006-06-27 10:20:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-27 10:17:41 · 11 answers · asked by yourmainblonde 1

My husband from the past 2 weeks I have 2 kids , both are at daycare program(CCS). What I need to know is do I need to open a case for childsupport or what to do ??? cuz I have an appointment at ccs & I told them the situation & they asking me a proof of child support but I have understand that childsupport can proceed only when a divorce is signed. My husband & I had an agreement (by letter) attaching the amount he will provide me bi-weekly will this be enough or do I have to open a case in childsupport eventhough we are not divorce & don't know if we are getting back again??? Any advices will be helpful.... :)
PD.
We are separated but not sure if we want a divorce it was just a break to think things through... there was no cheating or nothing bad it was mutual agreement.... :

2006-06-27 10:13:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been hospitalized several times...sometimes just for medicinal changes for bipolar and depression. This doesn't affect my mothering, and my children have always been cared for while I do this. I am afraid my husband will legally use this against me to obtain custody of my five year old daughter...Can I prevent this?

2006-06-27 10:11:19 · 15 answers · asked by jenbent72 1

I have been married for eight years now. We have one daughter together. But here is the problem he is addicted to crack cocaine and has been in and out of prison this would make it his third time since we have been married. I left him three years ago in California and moved me and my girls to Oklahoma. He recently called us from prison and has been writing us every once in a while. He wants to come to us when he gets out. However I have been clean for three years now and we have started a new life me and my girls. Do I give him the benefit of the doubt and let him come here when he gets out or do I get a divorce before he gets out? His daughter wants me to let him come here but mine says no because she remembers the abuse when we were both using. The hard thing for me is I changed can he too, but I have never been to prison like he has though. Can anyone give me some guidance to this plz. All opinions welcomed.

2006-06-27 10:07:14 · 35 answers · asked by amosby1970 2

2006-06-27 10:01:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous