Marriage & Divorce - 27 June 2006

Do you stay in a marriage where there is no major problems, but the love is gone for the sake of the children? I married a good father and a decent man. We've been married 9 years, but I have never really been in love with him. My ex boyfriend who I have always know was my soulmate has come back into my life. I am so lonely in my marriage, but my husband is clueless. I have talked to him several times but nothing changes. How can I be happy and not destroy my children?

2006-06-27 09:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 6 years and together for 9, have 2 wondefull kids. Lately we have been fighting a lot and everytime he is drunk. He also says hurtfull words that i can't forget, and always says he is leaving, but the next day it is like nothing happened?
I know i still love in some kind of way that may not be enough for me no more to stay together. But how to know if things can't be resolved or to just move on?

2006-06-27 09:51:47 · 23 answers · asked by djrod 1

Why do you like to be held after sex? Is this a turn off if a man doesen't hold you after sex?

2006-06-27 09:50:55 · 28 answers · asked by BigTyme 2

For the adult males out there fun question
- if you had an opportunity to get with the most beautiful girl in the world would you Cheat on your wife, current girlfriend , significant other. ?? honestly, would you ? ( disregarding whether your wife found out or not)

2006-06-27 09:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by Jackie 4

2006-06-27 09:49:44 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 1

I just met this great woman last night and we really hit it off i.e. laughed, smiled, etc. She asked me for my number and email. I gave them to her as well as getting her info. I liked how we laughed together and how she kept stroking her hands on my shoulders and arms. Also found out that she is moving to NYC for a new job. I’m in CA. She invited me to come visit her in NYC at the end of the month or anytime. Here’s the problem: my wife and I are divorcing (don’t want to get into the reasons why and no hopes of reconciliation). That hasn’t finished yet nor does this new girl know about my future ex-wife. She also doesn’t know about my two kids. Also, she was with someone else at this night out I met her at. I want to ask her out. I liked the chemistry and sparks but I don’t know how or when to bring up the other stuff or should I bring it up right now. I don’t know if NYC or the other guy (been with that guy a couple of weeks) is a permanent thing either. Should I pursue?

2006-06-27 09:47:20 · 7 answers · asked by ntoriano 4

2006-06-27 09:46:20 · 11 answers · asked by cutiepie81289 7

in Southern California, but you aren't interested in leaving your husband. Would you consider looking for a long-term side relationship?

2006-06-27 09:45:22 · 10 answers · asked by drsteve362005 6

2006-06-27 09:43:19 · 9 answers · asked by **What??** 4

2006-06-27 09:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by NW 2

do I do it was at first a black and white thing you look good i look good never dated outside my race and now I have falling so hard and i dont know how to get over it.

2006-06-27 09:35:16 · 24 answers · asked by ljamisonl 1

2006-06-27 09:33:43 · 27 answers · asked by crittle 1

will a little on the side be good

2006-06-27 09:25:53 · 49 answers · asked by rick a 2

According to other answers on Yahoo answers, many MANY, women blame men.

If he cheats, it's his fault for being an a$$hole. However, if SHE cheats, somehow it must be his fault, for not giving her what she wants?

How the hell do women work this bu11sh1t out?

I have never been cheated on, and have never cheated, so this is not personal for me, but knowing as I do, exactly why people cheat, and it's not a man, or, a woman thing, I can't help finding all this, "It's always his fault, because all men are a$$holes" to be sexist bolloky rubbish that ranks up there with all women fake orgasms 'cos they are all lying b1tches'!

What are your thoughts?

2006-06-27 09:24:16 · 17 answers · asked by kenhallonthenet 5

My husband and nephew (20 something) are always together? I have thought about doing new things sexually in my relationship but I am afraid cuz I don't think my nephew needs to find out. What do you suggest?

2006-06-27 09:21:48 · 16 answers · asked by lrybio2006 2

THE GUY I AM SEEING WE LEFT EACH OTHER ALONG BUT NOW WE SEE EACH OTHER MORE AND THE FEELINGS ARE COMING BACK EVEN STRONGER HOW DO I GET OVER HIM

2006-06-27 09:20:58 · 29 answers · asked by ljamisonl 1

I have two kids with my ex and now that we are split we aren't making it financially. I work two jobs as does he. My question is this. He has found a house with two seperate living quarters that has an affordable rent, is nice and includes utilities. This will save both of us hundreds each!! I'm worried about jelousy issues , etc. What do you think? Go ahead? Should I choose the best financial route for the family, easy access for the kids to both parents or do I keep trying to make it the way I have been? Any advice, any other people with experience?

2006-06-27 09:16:29 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle F 3

I had a boyfriend for two years and he was a great guy and loved me. I broke it off with him and we did not speak for 3 years we got back into contact and i already married my current husband we were friends and he met a girl and was dating her for about 3 months he bought her an engagement ring and i helped him pick it out. He took me in the car afterwards and said so what do ya think about this and i said it is sudden and are you positve this is what you want? His reply was "IF I CAN"T HAVE THE MANSION THEN I WILL HAVE THE NICE HOUSE" . I said nothing. He then said to me if you tell me you love me i will throw this ring out the window. I was blown away and i couldn't say anything. He ended up marring her and having a child. What do you think of his theory of the mansion and the house?

2006-06-27 09:08:49 · 30 answers · asked by blondiebella 3

i havent been happy in the past couple years i know i am ready to move on, whats the best way to let him know with out starting world war 3??

2006-06-27 09:05:39 · 16 answers · asked by txdiamonds4ever 2

2006-06-27 09:02:58 · 13 answers · asked by laylabriar 1

my ex served me papers over year and a half and pursed custody of our daughter.once i got over the shock all i wanted was to have a fair custody agreement [which i got]
since then i have done everything i can to be a good father, i have been available to help my ex in anyway i could.
heres the problem......i still love her and want my daughter to have both parents raising her together. ex says there is no chance of reconciling but i still have hope but here lately i feel so depressed and lonely...
what should i do now??

2006-06-27 08:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by broken 2

2006-06-27 08:44:11 · 86 answers · asked by nadiakhansam 1

I have a mild form of Autism, and its hard for me to read faces and body language. WhenI ask my husband what's wrong he says "nonthing's wrong", wether i cannot read him or if he's simply lying I have a hard time and will often ask the same question again. My husband gets angry when I don't beleive him and ask the question again. What can I do? I want to beleive what he says and leave it at that, but I cannot stop asking because what i am getting from his face or body doesn't add up to me. What can I do, so I don't drive us both crazy?

2006-06-27 08:41:53 · 28 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

Before boot camp, he was who I fell in love with. He came back a very changed man. I still love him. No doubts. But I miss the real him...and I have a government issued Marine to keep me safe.

2006-06-27 08:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It really turns me on when she is dirty dancing with guys she thinks are hot. The rule is no hands anywhere private and obviously no kissing.

2006-06-27 08:36:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Back-talkin' ***** better get out there!

2006-06-27 08:36:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

be honest - how many of you are really happy in there realtionship? I'm with mine out of convinience. so there...

2006-06-27 08:35:20 · 21 answers · asked by Sammy 3

My husband and I divorced largely because of his verbal and emotional abuse and all that goes with it. He is changing jobs now, and called me with his latest list of demands. He wants to have our child whenever it is convenient, and for me to be agreeable. My job requires that I work every other weekend. This is not negotiable. I have no weekend sitter, and can not lose this job. When I told him this he was really irate. He threatened "legal action again." This visitation was set up per HIS desires and is very generous. I always accomodate him, with extra time as he asks. WHat do I do now? I can not afford a lawyer again. All positive responses welcome - Christian perspective desperately sought.

2006-06-27 08:31:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband loves my body. I have been with him since we are 15 and 16 we are now 30 and 32 we have children and he sees no one else but me. He is sometimes obsessive about it but i do appreciate it is there anyone else out there with the same type of situation?

2006-06-27 08:30:51 · 17 answers · asked by blondiebella 3

She was cute as a button....now she is an OGRE - she eats like a sailor, and lays there like a log when we screw. She is starting to smell like rotting flesh, too.

Help!

2006-06-27 08:26:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous