will a little on the side be good
2006-06-27 09:25:53 · 49 answers · asked by rick a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way, it will ruin your relationship. And if you do mess around you might enjoy it at the time, but you will feel horrible afterward and that will eat away at your conscious. Why would you even want to mess around. It's naturall to see an attractive member of the opposite sex and think, wow, they look great, but it is too far if you are thinking of pursuing anything more than your private thought with them. At least if you do mess around and your WIFE finds out, she'll leave your sorry, pathetic *** and hopefully will find a man that will treat her with the respect and admiration she deserves.
2006-06-27 09:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 3 · 14⤊ 2⤋
Looking for what? a way out of the marriage. Looking for adultry? Infedelity. To disrepect the woman he married? I say no. If he wants to look the operative words are SEPERATE FIRST. If a man was really married in the true sense of the word. looking would be the last thing he'd want to do. It's a sad thing when man or woman disrespect their marriage then go home to their partner looking like they've just come back from a walk in the park. Be honest. if the fire is gone, let your spouse know. If there is a flicker. Maybe you can bring it back. If you don't wish to. Move on. Do the right thing hun.
2006-06-27 09:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is no a little one the side wont be good if you're married. When you got married you made a promise to your wife, yourself, her family, your family, and in front of god. Having a wife and someone else on the side is worsier than you cheating when she was just a girl friend. Think about it because it's really your choice, do you want to be with your wife or you want someone else. In my eyes if you choose the other girl over the one you promised to love until death do you part what was the point of you marrying her.
2006-06-27 09:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married then ? To have someone clean and cook for you ? The only person a little on the side benefits is you and that is only temporary. It will eventually come out and ruin what you currently have. If a married man thinks he should be looking, what he should be looking for is a divorce.
2006-06-27 09:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for a man to look, if they say they don't they are not telling the truth. A little on the side would not be good.
2006-06-27 10:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with looking - I think its healthy for both men and women to look.
"A little on the side" = no good!
2006-06-27 09:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, you made a committment.
If you are in any committed relationship, you should not be looking.
Most people that LOOK are evaluating, especially men:
Wow, she is DOable !
And that attitude is just RUDE to your mate.
If you still want to look after this enlightenment, then be fair, ...
tell your mate to "LOOK" and rate as much as she wants too.
Maybe the two of you can play this game when you're out and really destroy your relationship, respect and consideration towards each other.
Why disipline yourself when you can have so much fun dishing the pain? :P
stw
2006-06-27 09:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, rick, we're married, not dead. A little on the side is good for marriage longevity.
Man, look at all the chicks that know how to be a good man, lol! :-D
2006-06-27 09:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking just to appreciate beauty is one thing. Looking for "a little on the side" is called adultery. It is grounds for divorce. If that is what you are looking for maybe you should not be married.
2006-06-27 09:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by jonny'sgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if this is the way you think, you should have stayed single. So, looking is OK, it's normal if you aren't obvious in doing this with wife. Just don't go to an extreme from looking, that's NOT good.
2006-06-27 09:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not if a man was to do that that man needs to ask himself why did he even get married if he wanted to still play around. Nobody can make u do anything u dont want to do so its up to that dude to be faithful and true and if u still want to look, get a divorce!
2006-06-27 09:33:22 · answer #11 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋