Why do you like to be held after sex? Is this a turn off if a man doesen't hold you after sex?
2006-06-27 09:50:55 · 28 answers · asked by BigTyme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For most women sex is special. And to be held after sex means to most women that she is special and not a piece of meat or flavor of the minute. If you plan to have a relationship with the women who you had sex with. Try talking to her after wards, a kiss and then to top it off hold her as you to go to sleep. She will be in awe!!
2006-06-27 10:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jus4MsLTC 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Generally so the emotional connection continues when you cuddle so you don't feel like it was only about sex. It is not a turn off not to be held if you are confident in the relationship. For most women sex is an emotional connection not just a pleasurable act. Cuddling confirms that the relationship is emotional for the man too.
2006-06-27 16:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE TO BE HELD BEFORE AFTER..ALWAYS...
i am just a sweet woman that need love. even if we have extreme sex..i still like to be sweaty and held..nothing wrong with that....
i think is wack when a man go to sleep after we did it....is just my opinion..is wack getup take a shower...is nice and sweet stay together after we did it...hug eachother...kiss eachother and do it again..TILL 6 IN DA MORNIN.....
it depends...i think u should act yourself...if the woman likes u the way u are is cool if not she ll find somebody else.
2006-06-27 17:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by BellA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its comforting, if a man were to be intimate with me and after it just roll over as if to throw me away like a piece of garbage instead of holding me as to say thank you thats better. Its a turn off when the guy rolls over after being intimate.
2006-06-27 16:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't like to be held after sex and some do. You shouldn't stereotype.
2006-06-27 16:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shocked so many women don't like to be held, wow.
Personally, I'm 50/50. Sometimes holding is necessary. But just laying there chatting and laughing is expected. But when its time to sleep, give me my space or go home.
2006-06-27 17:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well only some women like to be held... personally I don't. if it is real good. I just want to get up go take a shower and then go to sleep. or if its in the morning. get in the shower and go to work. whatever... I never understood why some women like to be held.
I tried that, and I was to weak and to sweaty to just be layin there holding each other. but I like to take a shower with my man after we are finished.
2006-06-27 16:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by TeTe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that, however the ones that do like that are the ones that like to be close and cuddle. It's so they dont feel like it was only a F***. That it really meant something for both guy and girl (well that's what i think)!
2006-06-27 17:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH hello. so that the woman *knows* that you werent with her just for the sex. that are going to hang around, stick around, whatever for longer and actually have a relationship. think of it as a direct life / bed situation translation - you sleep w her -> get up and leave = (equals) you meet her-> mess around-> cheat / find someone else/ dump her JUST LIKE THAT>
well and also because women LOVE to cuddle. it satisfies us even more than sex
2006-06-27 17:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, generally, it shows that the man loves the woman for real and that sex was for love not just for physical pleasure.
2006-06-27 16:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋