THE GUY I AM SEEING WE LEFT EACH OTHER ALONG BUT NOW WE SEE EACH OTHER MORE AND THE FEELINGS ARE COMING BACK EVEN STRONGER HOW DO I GET OVER HIM
2006-06-27 09:20:58 · 29 answers · asked by ljamisonl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Feelings of the heart is a hard thing to get over or to ignore. Take it from someone who's been there. All I can tell you is the only thing that will work is time. Time to let go and to heal. It may take less that a week, it may take as long as a year. Depending on how big the steps your are taking. But never beat yourself up for loving someone. Love is a special gift. Yours just have to be given to someone else. Some one who'll love you in return. Good luck to you hun. Remember, I care.
2006-06-27 09:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What are you 10 years old? Give me a break. I was counseling people about this question 15 years ago. Don't write me off yet!
Listen, If you KNOW you can not be together, then move on!
YOu will only hurt him, or he you by pursuing something that should not be!
its like saying "what if I want to put my hand over the fire, but I know I will get burned".
I don't mean to sound so crass, but listen, you won't DIE. Really, you won't. Get out more, see some movies, have some munchies with friends. OCCUPY your mind!!
2006-06-27 17:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by JudoMan77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship ended for a reason. I know its easier to remember the good times and feelings you had when you see him, but you need to focus on the ugliness that made you go your separate ways. Get a new hobby, go out with your friends - do whatever you need to in order to keep your mind off of him. Try to avoid going places where you know he'll be.
2006-06-27 16:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are either one of you married or something? If that's the case, you should just forget about it because you will end up hurting a lot of innocent people. Otherwise, find a hobby if you need to get over it that bad. Go to a gym, do a crossword puzzle, anything to keep your mind busy.
2006-06-27 16:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by mizzmisti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't try 2 get over him! if u love him u tell him how u feel and then hope he feels the same way. don't avoid him or n e thing like that cuz what if he likes u? then ur just going 2 show him that u really don't want n e thing 2 do with him. and u don't want 2 do that if u still love him!!! follow ur heart!
2006-06-27 16:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by I LOVE DYLAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is in a relationship with someone else keep your feelings to yourself! you had your chance with him and blew it or he dumped you. either way there IS a reason for an ex to be an EX ya know what i mean / think of the things that went wrong. if ya just cant be together for other reasons maybe you should just wait it out and let him make first move, so many women out there screwing with other womens men its sad we should be helping and stand by our own but no we women are so unthoughtful till the shoe is on the other foot!!! get your own man
2006-06-27 16:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by chatterbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication is key. Approach him and find out if he feels the same way about you. Is it something that you think he feels the same way or is it only coming from you.
Remember, reality checks are the key after you can talk about it. Find out exactly where he stands in the relationship and hear it from his own words. If he feels the same way about you the same way you feel about him, then chances are you are both having the same issues and should be together to solve them.
2006-06-27 16:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is impossible for both of you to be together, then break off with him. it doesnt mean that you are forgetting him. it means that you are cutting him from your life. you can still go on loving him from a distance but set him free. move on.dont try to get over him. you can never get over the one you love. just dont have any contact with him. slowly the pain will go away. it takes tremendeous will power to break off with the one you love. but you have to do what is right.
2006-06-27 16:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get that figured out let me know too will ya?
Sometimes it seems you just have to move on with your life. If you know you can't be together why torture yourself longer than you have to. Remember, it's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
2006-06-27 16:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by corrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, remember why you left each other. and if you think that will never happen again then let time put you two together. or you could just keep being friends.
2006-06-27 16:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by illinios2hollywood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋