My husband and nephew (20 something) are always together? I have thought about doing new things sexually in my relationship but I am afraid cuz I don't think my nephew needs to find out. What do you suggest?
2006-06-27 09:21:48 · 16 answers · asked by lrybio2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask your hubby if he wants the nephew to join into a threesome!!! That may shock him enough to spend more time with you!!!
2006-06-27 09:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do they really talk about your sex life? If so you need to put a stop to that type of conversation, telling your husband that what is done is the bedroom is for your and his mind only- not to discuss any of it with the nephew. If the nephew wants ideas on how to spice up his love life, your husband can always suggest the books or sites that you got these ideas from, but he is never to say that he tried these moves out on you and that enjoyed them or not.
2006-06-27 16:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried because your husband doesn't keep anything private from your nephew, then you should be worried. We all have friends and people we hang out with, but most people refrain from telling all about every aspect of their lives. If you ask your hubby to not tell the nephew, will he honor your wishes? If not, then you two need to re-evaluate your relationship and his relationship with the nephew. Because if he is putting the nephew before you, then there is a problem
2006-06-27 16:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your husband (and you didn't say how old HE is) spends a lot of time with your nephew doesn't mean he tells him personal things about the two of you. Why don't you ask your husband? If he thinks a zipped lip will get him some hot new action I bet he becomes the quietest man on the planet!
2006-06-27 16:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly hope that your husband would have more class than to discuss your sex life with your nephew. If your fears are real, perhaps you should sit down and set some major ground rules on the discussions he has with the nephew. Then tell him in order to reap the rewards of experimenting in the bedroom he has to promise you that he can be discreet. Good luck.
2006-06-27 16:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by s b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be having some insecurity going on with you.
Be all you can be girl.
If your husband brags on you, that is what some men do, but not all.
Which ever kind of man your husband is, has nothing to do with what you want to do in private with him, or it should not.
If you can't get a handle on this and go forward freely with your plans, I suggest that you discuss these apprehensions with your doctor. He may have some Rx that can help you feel less anxiety about making decisions of what you want for yourself.
stw
2006-06-27 16:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell your husband not to discuss your sex life with your nephew, he should respect that. Have you talked to your husband about this? I'm sure he will understand and be more than happy that you want to spice up your sex life.
2006-06-27 16:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by jonny'sgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That should be between you and your hubby...I don't ever hear husbands talk about their sexual experiences with their wife's...just their gf's...go don't worry about the nephew.
2006-06-27 16:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd definetely tell your hubby not to say anything, as it's none of the nephew's business what goes on behind closed doors in your house! keep in mind, however, that he may share some pointers....after all, they ARE guys:)
2006-06-27 16:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by ohsostarless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband to keep it a secret. No one needs to know what the two of you do in the bedroom.
2006-06-27 16:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋