do I do it was at first a black and white thing you look good i look good never dated outside my race and now I have falling so hard and i dont know how to get over it.
2006-06-27 09:35:16 · 24 answers · asked by ljamisonl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is married. Get away from him!!
2006-06-27 09:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it real fast, because the married men NEVER leave the wives.
It's not worth it, find your self a single guy. Married men only really want one thing and that the excitement of playing around on their wives. They dont want a second wife or even a girlfriend, just a role in the sack and to say yah iam with both!
2006-06-27 16:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by misscanada_y2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a positive environment for you. I can understand the excitement of being with a person who is off limits but, you have to have self respect for yourself. Regarding the race, that's nothing because love has no color. With him being married, that is him disrespecting you and his wife. Some men have always wanted to see how good it is on the "other side" if you understand me, but girly girl you are being used and abused and your letting this man empower what is you. Rise above this and better who you are and I know that God will bless you that much more.
2006-06-27 17:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW; are you ever screwing up. He is married leave it alone. I have one question for you and think about it. If he cheated on his wife with you, what makes you think he will not cheat on you? If he was to ever leave his wife for you. Do you want to live like that wondering if he is cheating on you like he did his wife.
Girl marriage is sacred it is your whole being joined with another. Get out and leave it alone.
Look in the mirror and think about how you would feel if it was your husband cheating on you.
That is the most devastating thing a woman can go through. I would rather take a beating again than to find out my husband was sleeping around.
Where is your self respect. Do you have any?
Guess you can figure been there done that.....Only I wasn't the one cheating........Leave it alone.......
2006-06-27 17:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by lessa65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ure self y do u want him so much? is it jus some fatal attraction or something more than that. well whatever it is, be away. Change ure job if u guys are at work .Distance helps in healing.Girl,its a heart break for sure. Pluck it off at the bud even before it blooms. itll sure save u a lot of tears . its not worth the litle smile that may give u now.
2006-06-27 16:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by girlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your playing with fire and your gonna get burned. Turn the
tables what if you where his wife how would you feel.Really
think about this is it worth it because the majority of the time
these situations dont work out and people end up hurt.I know its
rough but been there done that trust me move on.
2006-06-27 18:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by ksgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't in love with him, you are infatuated with the fact that he is a married man and supposed to be untouchable. I am a married woman and I have to say, married means don't touch. It is a bond between a man and a woman, and no outsiders. Its sacred. You don't mess with that.
2006-06-27 17:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by jasonandmaria98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married then get over it and do it soon. You dont want to destroy his marriage or lower yourself to being the other woman do you? Let him go and if he tries anything with you then he has no respect for you or his wife, no matter what the situation.
2006-06-27 16:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by rosebud1320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married man are off limits. Have some self respect.
2006-06-27 16:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better he has a family and u r not a part of dont go messing up someones happy home leave him alone and go find someone to is free to be with u
2006-06-27 16:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Not because of him, not because of his wife: because of YOU.
You deserve better than a cheating husband. No matter all he may have been saying to you - of course he is saying sweet little things! - imagine for a sec what he is doing/saying to his wife.
And if he says that "its all over with her, but don't want to hurt her", please do understand it is BS!!! if it was all over, SHE would have moved out.
2006-06-27 17:09:11 · answer #11 · answered by OneLilithHidesAnother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋