It really turns me on when she is dirty dancing with guys she thinks are hot. The rule is no hands anywhere private and obviously no kissing.
2006-06-27 08:36:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as yer ok with it and shes ok with it, why do you care what anyone else thinks?
2006-06-27 08:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it fine. If you don't mind her cheating on you one day and getting a divorce!
Yeah sure go ahead let her dirty dance with Hot men, she should be dirty dancing with you!
she should think you're Hot. Do you see my point here? I think she's more turned on then you. With the way this looks You're marriage might not last long buddy, you should find a Different kinda thing to do, maybe like Watch Dirty dancing together? You can continue to do that, but she may like dirty dancing with those Hot men, and then forgot you're watching one day, or just won't care!
2006-06-27 08:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by TiffenyBreaks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each there own, but where does it end, yes you say no hands in private places and no kissing. But that's now, you could be heading in the wrong direction and misleading your wife in thinking its OK. Just put some thought into this. Good luck.
2006-06-27 08:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventhough you may like it now, one of these days the guy or your wife will do something that you won't like and you'll be angry. You're letting your wife experience a somewhat sexual experience with someone other than you, and if this goes on, with or without your knowledge, she'll take it all the way with one of those guys. She may have already and you just don't know about it. Besides, she thinks they're hot... but does she think you are???
You're playing with fire... and sooner or later, you'll get burned.
2006-06-27 08:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by whateva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can be hot to see your significant other doing that as long as it doesn't go too far i would be turned on by it but iam freaky. I wouldn't be turned on seeing him kiss her or touch her on her lumps but to see him moving and dancing with someone he thought was hot would be a bit dangerous and definetly enticing he would never do it though
2006-06-27 08:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by blondiebella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry a woman if you want to see other guys with their hands on her? Next will be hands in semi private then private areas and then kissing and then more.
2006-06-27 08:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with it at all. In fact, although i have never acted upon it, the thought of my wife having sex with others is a turn on.
This lifestyle is called swinging and is not uncommon.
2006-06-27 08:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both okay with it and agree to the rules and stick to them, then it hurts no one, so what harm does it do. People allow spouses to do much more than this and live happily together, aka swingers.
2006-06-27 08:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if your both ok with it, it shouldn't be a problem. Keep in mind that her dancing might lead to other things when your not around.
2006-06-27 08:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever turns you on is fine. I would reccomend though you let her have sex with another guy in front of you. Many guys like this and enjoy it. You can find guys at www.adultfriendfinder.com for this purpose.
2006-06-27 08:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you and your wife know what you're doing , and nobody gets hurt it's OK i think, but it's obviously your choice
2006-06-27 08:41:20 · answer #11 · answered by nancieke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋