2006-06-27 09:43:19 · 9 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you are truley in love with eachother, i dont think u can, because love grows stronger when u are with the right one, thats alot of the problem with marriages today, people think they love eachother when they really dont
2006-06-27 09:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is an action. By doing things together and acting in kindness, you can keep the love alive. To keep loving each other, show love to one another by doing the things that made you fall in love in the first place.
Love is a choice. Marriage is a committment to make that choice every morning, no matter what. With unmarried couples who are committed, is an agreement to do the same, just without the piece of paper.
Love takes a lot of work, it isn't something that magically appears when cupid shoots his arrow. Couples fall "out of love" when they stop doing things for one another, speaking with kindness to each other and spending time together.
2006-06-27 09:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough communication.For a relationship to work u always need communication.They need to really talk with each other and tell each other how they feel, completely.Not leaving anything out. When someone loves another person, they DONT just get tired of the other person.Something has to be wrong.And thats why communication is necessary.
2006-06-27 09:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by ojoscafes122 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the common misconception is, that without the butterfly's the love is gone. The truth is that real love has phases and that love changes. It doesn't mean there is no love it means that maybe, for now the passion has subsided but comfort and peace have taken its place. We shouldn't be so quick to toss love aside.
2006-06-27 10:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by me :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow apart and change. It usually happens so slow. Then one day you look at the person you knew so well and you don't recognize them. Sometimes people move in separate directions with their lives. It happens mostly when people are young and they don't fully know themselves when they get into the relationship. They are still in the process of understanding themselves.
2006-06-27 09:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They get tired of each other and need some fresh meat. Its like a car, it gets old after a while and wears out
2006-06-27 09:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one just become bored. i guess often times, in relationships we get complacent and stop making that xtra effort to make tings xciting and challenging. The romantic stigma eventually loses its flavour.
love is synonymous to a plant, if you donot water the plant, it will die.
2006-06-27 10:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by SHAUN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when your around someone so much you just grow apart or you get tired of being around them.
2006-06-27 09:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They let it happen. They stop caring about their spouse or significant other. They become selfish.
2006-06-27 09:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋