Well I've been pessimist all my life and I was fine with that. 5 years ago I've met a girl and we lived together until she left 2 years ago. Since then my life went down the drain. I think I am obsessed with her and keep on trying to win her back when even I know that's impossible. I tried anti-depressants, another girls, church going, new friends etc. Few weeks ago my dad passed away and instead of thinking about him I keep thinking about her all the time. My life looks so dark that I just listen to sad songs and think about suicide. Is there any other way? Or my life is already gone?
2006-06-27 11:49:12 · 7 answers · asked by fallen_mongol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She was only a messenger.She did what she was supposed to do and it is finished.don't expect more than this.she preparwed your life for a higher step.so you need to go forward.tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life.never forget her but the world is not ended .there,out are thousands of people who love you alot.
search and you'll find your destiny.God does whatever is Good for us.don't doubt it.
2006-06-27 11:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not you will eventually get over her. Time heals everything. I know you don't see that now. But everything happens for a reason. Maybe you just have a bigger and better purpose in life. You just don't see it yet. Please don't ever consider suicide that solves nothing. And someone in this world really needs you. Your life isn't gone you have to want better before it can happen. Ever heard of you gotta see it to believe it well wrong you have to believe it before you can see it. If you need some one to talk to just email me ambergill500@yahoo.com. Best wishes to you
2006-06-27 19:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 get a hold of yourself things will soon get better continue to go to church and pray ask god to guide u speak with a therapist your life is so much more than killing yourself especially over a girl dont do it and stop listening to love songs thats not helping she has moved on with her life so u do the same all the energy u have thinking about her and trying to get her back put it into yourself and the love u have for yourself i wish u peace
2006-06-27 19:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get professional help. Also if you can talk to a close male friend or someone close to you. About what you just shared here.I want to tell you speaking from knowledge of matters like this. If you were to walk into a hospital and reveal these thought you would be admitted in the Physic Ward. that's how close you are to the edge ..please get help.
2006-06-27 19:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is worth giving up your life for. The girl just isn't seeing the caring person you are, therefore it's her loss and not yours. Pain takes awhile to fade, but it won't last forever. Keep your head up and don't ever forget that you were put on this earth for a reason, and it must not have been for her, but maybe for someone more deserving.
2006-06-27 19:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by telishabishop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seek psychological help. Being obsessed for someone like that is unhealthy. Make some new friends...move out of the area if you have to. Nothing or no one is worth your life.
2006-06-27 19:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by the_charmed_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling, but thats not the ans, stay busy and do things with ur friends, its hardi know but u have to do it , time will heal
2006-06-27 18:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋