It started when I told him his songs(he's in a band) turned me on. At first it was so hot.Now I hear his music being played everywhere! So when he comes to bed to do me, I don't want to hear his songs again!! How can I tell him without hurting his feelings??BTW, he's not obsessed with himself, I think he'll just be insulted and think I don't get turned on by listening to him sing!
2006-06-27 11:23:56 · 25 answers · asked by FASHIONISTAMOM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No we're not in the '5th grade'!lol. He's a musician, he does have a bit of an ego in the bedroom.
2006-06-27 11:34:39 · update #1
Just tell him. He's your husband..You should be able to know how to tell him in such manner where not to hurt his feelings.
2006-06-27 11:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
be honest. tell him that the songs turned u on becuse they were new. not that u hear them when u do the dishes and all the everyday stuff it reminds u of that. make clear that u still love what he does it's just the association is different. it's like classical conditioning.
or u can say that u wanna try something new. get a new CD and some new sexy lingere and turn ur normal sex life completely around. i bet ya he'll love it.
good luck
2006-06-27 18:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you surprise him with a school girl outfit or something? Or bring in some toys? Sort of redirect his attention a bit. You could put in a different CD and say you want to create a new mood... or you could put in a porn or buy a book and tell him you want a new adventure.
2006-06-27 18:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by LittleBlackDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he puts the music on leave it on a bit. Tease him, and then quietly turn the music off and without a word, take control, do him!
2006-06-27 18:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that like any other song he's starting to play the music out and you dont' want him to cause you want to hear the music only on special occasions.
2006-06-27 18:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, sorry but this is a pretty funny situation. I see how this could happen actually.
Perhaps what you should do is pre-empt this by having a different CD ready to go.
2006-06-27 18:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put in a different CD and tell him you're in a mood for someting a little different - then TRY something different too!!
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2006-06-27 18:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the music off and then "do" him. Make it better when the music is off. Next time he turns the music off. Maybe do it in nature soemwhere where there is no music.
2006-06-27 18:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping with him until he turns off the music. Tell hiom you want his full concentration. =)
2006-07-03 20:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Coolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put another CD in. Just say you want to change it up
2006-06-27 18:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rebeca O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋