Marriage & Divorce - 26 June 2006

my husband develops websites. i found porn material in his internet history on his computer. he told me he was creating a website for someone and would be paid well. i told him i didn't want the money and to stop immediately. i continue to find several links to porn 2-3 times a week in his history. he says these are coming in because of the previous work he was doing and "piggybacking" on other stuff and says he doesn't know how to clear his computer to no longer allow these in. i am not convinced. i fear there is more to the story. he doesn't come across as someone who would be into this stuff but i don't trust him.

2006-06-26 17:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by notsurewhattobeleive 1

My husband talks for hours on web cam chats to other women. His talk is suggestive if not outright sexual, including asking to see body parts or showing himself on camera. I say this is cheating because it takes from our marriage and fills his head with ideas. He cheated once becasue of this four years ago and I just can't tolarate this. He says it is harmless. I need to hear from women AND men.

2006-06-26 17:49:29 · 69 answers · asked by Greencastle PS 2

He is 28 years old and we have been together for 9 yrs. and have 3 kids. We lived with his parents in a room and had our own little bathroom. It was one room for the five of us! I just recently left him a week ago because I just cant live another year there, let me say that it was 5 yrs. with his parents. So now I live 3 1/2 hours away from him and he is texting me everyday calling me a B**** and accusing me of having sex with someone else. How can I make him understand that I still want to be with him but I just dont want to live with his parents? Do you think he is texting me all that stuff because he is hurt or because he is mad?

2006-06-26 17:48:04 · 15 answers · asked by angie n 2

2006-06-26 17:42:27 · 17 answers · asked by interracialcoupleinnc 1

Quite a few years ago I looked ino the eyes of a guy that almost instantly grabbed my heart. He moved away and we never did get to know eachother. I know how crazy this sounds that's why only the true romantics will understand. I'm happily married and no I'm not planning an afair. But why is he sill in my heart? Please share your thoughts.

2006-06-26 17:40:34 · 20 answers · asked by snowhite 2

that (s)he enticed, and then after hospitalization, (s)he was caught contacting the person that attacked them, Would that be grounds for divorce to you?

2006-06-26 17:39:13 · 8 answers · asked by Neil P 1

Please help, I have a custody agreement with my ex-husband that was made when we first separated. Over the past 2 years, I have learned that he is a pathological liar, has a suspended license, IRS is looking for him, his religion was different then what he told me, his history with his ex-wife and children was not what he told me and includes physical and mental abuse of his previous spouse, he's a frequent steroid user and basically everything I knew about the man was a lie. I have proof of all of the above; however, I have nothing that shows that he's an unfit parent. My fear is spending thousands on lawyer fees just to have a judge tell me that being a very bad person isn’t enough to make changes. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I feel sick every time she is with him since I have no idea what else he is capable of.
Thank You.

2006-06-26 17:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by Carrieanne 1

my man is married and was attemting to get a divorce and she wouldnt let him, he says hes just confused and now he says that he wants to workthings out with his wife, but what do i do, where does that leave me? i realize im being terribly selfish and everything but should i fight for my man or let him try to be with his wife?

2006-06-26 17:08:36 · 30 answers · asked by dads_lil_girl_90 2

2006-06-26 17:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby and i had amazing woopie tonight and i am with this man for 16 years total. We are together since i am 15 and we still burn the sheets any way we kissed so freakin hard that i got a fat lip. It looks like he socked me one LOL.

2006-06-26 16:55:21 · 16 answers · asked by blondiebella 3

i.e. film her or just watch

2006-06-26 16:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by interracialcoupleinnc 1

while i was on vaca, my child told me there was a girl in my bed in the AM. I need to prove this to be true. i saved the sheets so they could be tested for hair, body fluids etc that doesnt belong to myself or my child. Where can i take these sheets to be tested and how much does it cost? Minnesota/nw wisconsin area please

2006-06-26 16:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by lilwind 1

I really have a situation here. I have never cheated on my husband and he has never cheated on me. But we have been separated for almost 2 months now. We have been married almost 10 years. But somehow over the years we just took each other for granted. Apparently he was feeling neglected and I was too. He was the one who left and now he want even talk to me. He says he hates me and he wants a divorce. We both were married previously. I have no children from my marriage, but he has 2 boys. The oldest one is of age and has baby #3 on the way. He will not work and he only talks to his dad if he wants something. Son #2 is not biologically his child. His first wife had an affair and now they have a son from it. I wanted to adopt, we couldn't have children. My husband didn't. So this bothered me alot. He says I hate his kids, but I don't. I don't like the way they use him. What do I do, to show him I love him & need him? That our marriage will work if we both try. Help?

2006-06-26 16:34:40 · 7 answers · asked by monkmonk 2

All but one is single, and the one that is married has a sqrewed up marriege. She's home all day talking to these females via email, and phone. Every time we have a argument, its behind what one of them has told her. I'm not saying that my wife can't think for herself, but we know how friends like to put their two cents in. If it was good advice I wouldn't be so mad, but it's getting worse. I'm at wits end with this, I don't want to pick my wifes friends for her, but if this bad advice keeps up It's going to destroy our relationship.

2006-06-26 16:33:37 · 16 answers · asked by Mr.knowit.all 2

2006-06-26 16:33:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

than her husband. They divorced and she is currently married. It gets better. She is half of my husbands age. What to do?

2006-06-26 16:21:34 · 19 answers · asked by Jane 1

Anyone out there, if your marriage was a arranged one by your parents and you know nothing about your husband/wife before marriage? can you share with me how do you feel before wedding and after wedding? when did you realise that you love your husband/wife deeply and cannot live without them? Since it's difficult to love someone whom we knew nothing about but we are going to spend rest of our life with them? So do you all agree that love can grow in a relationship?

2006-06-26 16:17:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-26 16:04:52 · 19 answers · asked by PB 1

Man, I've been married for 5 years and our intimacy has gone stale and how do I fight to get it back. I would never leave my wife, but I admit I have cheated and I told her I did. I came out with it. She's held a grudge for the longest it was 3 years ago, however, she says she doesn't want to leave me because she still loves me. So least I have a chance. That was the reason for the cheating in the first place. However, I told her that instead of cheating I wish I could've just talked to her about our intimacy problems from the start instead of cheating. I wouldn't be in this predicament. I'm willing to put all my time and energy into getting my love life back with my wife, and I just want her to love me like she loved me when we first met. It seems so hard, especially now that I did what I did 3 years ago. Females I need your advice and Males if you've been in a similiar situation and was able to recorrect your mistakes let me know how you done it?

2006-06-26 15:57:22 · 10 answers · asked by Shawn J 2

2006-06-26 15:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together 12 years, never did anything like this before. He seems really ashamed and disgusted with him self, but how do i trust him again, and how do we heal, and should i just leave.

2006-06-26 15:43:24 · 20 answers · asked by preraphaellady 2

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2006-06-26 15:38:03 · 7 answers · asked by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6

2006-06-26 15:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by damao987 2

2006-06-26 15:25:13 · 18 answers · asked by New k 1

I got married in july 2005 and we fight all the time. I just cant continue to feel bad anymore over stupid crap. we got married in nevada but we live in california. How do i file for divorce or do Ihave to file for legal seperation

2006-06-26 15:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by envisiondreaming 2

2006-06-26 15:18:07 · 11 answers · asked by milewalker200 2

They have 3 kids that come over every other weekend. she is kniving and evil. The sound of her name makes my stomach turn

2006-06-26 15:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by drillersgal425 1

2006-06-26 15:13:33 · 9 answers · asked by SineB_NaD 2

2006-06-26 15:12:59 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer T 1

Husband had an affair and moved out but says he wants to make it work and still loves me.

2006-06-26 15:12:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous