2006-06-26 15:25:13 · 18 answers · asked by New k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
New,
There can be a ton of reasons. My guess is that you haven't asked him, or you don't have an agreed time he should be home, right? If you are home with dinner or a kid, that is one thing. If you work late and just want to know why he isn't home alone, that is totally another. My ex-wife was a pharmacist who worked weird hours. Often, I would get off work before her, and go do the following with my "free" time...
1. Hit the mall
2. Go to the golf course
3. Hardware store
4. City park (frisby golf)
5. Work out
6. Work late.
7. Hang out with work buddies at a bar.
I never fooled around. That's what SHE did! Ha!
You get the idea. I guess with so little to go with, it is hard to say, but consider asking him how he spent his afternoon? It is a fair question.
2006-06-26 15:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by chuck_jax 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to ask yourself that question i don't know the situation but have you tried putting the kids to bed early,candle light dinner,sexy lingerie,sex toys etc.... if no kids then movies or sitting out watching the moon, walking, exercising together what ever it takes to get him interested in coming home to you or ask him if he has found someone else.communicate with each other.
2006-06-26 15:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not the weather or traffic, you need to ask him where he was? If you do not believe his answer, it's time to check his cell phone, wallet, etc and put your mind to rest. he might just be stopping off with the boys but if you are suspicious and you are not the overly jealous type, chances are you should trust your in stints. We are usually right and will kick ourselves later. Give him a chance though. It could be nothing.
2006-06-26 15:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by snowhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were my husband, I'd be following his *** after work for a few day's just to see what's really going on. Anyone with experience knows that if you ask him where he goes after work, he is going to lie to you. Don't be foolish, follow him and you will have your answer. If he is hitting the same bar everyday, then maybe there is someone working there that he has his eye on. I'veBeen there and done that. I got my answer by following my man. I found him at another womans house. Don't ask him anything, they all lie.
2006-06-26 15:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by luvRgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
h aha ha ha ha i do that. and i know the answer to that. yall need some spark in your relationship. he CAN be cheating but maybe not. maybe he finds something else to do because he doesn't want to come home. that's what i. it also depends on his field. see im a pc tech. i can accept more work out of the blue. i'm always getting private offers. so i just take them. got a nagging wife. are you a nagging wife? ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
2006-06-26 15:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably something you need to be asking your husband.Truthfully, he is your life partner, you took vows together, communicate with him and ask him what's going on.It may be nothing but you'll never know if you don't try to find out what's up.Good luck.
2006-06-26 15:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be working over, or goin out w/the guys. Dont burn any bridges until u know excalty what he's doing.
2006-06-26 15:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is avoiding home life. You two need to talk to find out why.
2006-06-26 15:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but need to have a talk with him it could be anything. let him know you know what time he gets off and what time he gets home.
2006-06-26 15:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i or anyone else on here would not know for sure, so why dont you sit him down and find our , open communication is verry important in a marriage or you dont have one. if you dont sit down with him things might get worse. good luck.
2006-06-26 15:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋