I got married in july 2005 and we fight all the time. I just cant continue to feel bad anymore over stupid crap. we got married in nevada but we live in california. How do i file for divorce or do Ihave to file for legal seperation
2006-06-26 15:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by envisiondreaming 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you live in ca, you file in ca. it doesn't matter where you are married. also, if you want a divorce you can do that too. the filing fee will be 320.00
2006-06-26 19:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by m 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes the first five years of marriage is the hardest and if you can get past them 5 yrs then it is all good. You do need to try counseling and not give up on your marriage it has only been 1 yr. But to answer your question you will have to file for a legal seperation then divorce.
2006-06-26 22:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I say before a person can drove they must past test. Well it should be the same for people wanting to play house. People take marriage seriously. Hollywood makes marriage look like the in thing to do and it is alot of hard work. People know from jumpstreet that they shouldn't be together and they anywhere.
2006-07-07 17:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less than a year is legal separation, I believe, which is less complicated than a divorce.
By the way, KB is right - try counseling first. Their going to sit down with you and your husband to "counsel" on the separation anyway. If you have to go through it, it might as well be to save your marriage rather than end it. If it really boils down to just "stupid crap" like you said, then it's not worth ending the marriage over.
2006-06-26 22:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can file for divorce. I got married in CO and I live in Cali now and I filed here in CA and I didn't go for separation first I went straight for the divorce and mine was easy. I went through a paralegal. It only cost me 350 dollars and we didn't even go to court cause we had agreements on our stuff and on the custody of our kids.
2006-06-26 23:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If kids are involved... there may be a seperation needed... If not divorce in Calif. could end up being a good thing. Either work out the "stupid crap", or get out.
2006-06-26 22:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by apryl2rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right. Divorce him, quit just like all the rest. You women are such quitters that it just makes me sick. There are no women left that know what committment, partnership or any other qualities it takes to make a marriage work. Go ahead file for divorce, Get out of his life so at least he can go forward. You do not have to file separation just go to the street corner lawyer and tell him. Califorina will support you they do all women. Quitters in the law, quitters in women you are all a bunch of quitters. It is not hard to find just do it. You do not have to go through a bunch of poor me poor my b.s. I will even give you my attorneys name. She was the best lawyer on my ex wifes team. God forbid you would have to argue over little crap, just get a divorce and hook onto the next unsuspecting candidate and if he argues quit on him to.
2006-06-26 22:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure you are ready to get out of the relationship?If you think it's worth considering not to separate or divorce I would like to talk to you about this i am a relationship coach. It wil be complimentary.
Would love to hear from you. I am married myself and i know it can be hard at times.
The first year is not always the easiest.
Best of luck to you.
2006-06-26 22:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by ilfecoach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you file, try marriage counseling. Divorce should be your LAST option. You are right under the wire for annulment. If you file for an annulment before your anniversary, it could be a lot easier. Good luck!
2006-06-26 22:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about your state, im in NY but even out here you can file for divorce but then they tell you to take a break (separate) and see what happens. but nobody on here can help you with the question of weithe ror not you should part because no one knows your history with your mate.
2006-06-26 22:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...sucks!
California = Community Property State
Work it out it gets easier. Stop fighting. It takes 2 to keep a quarrel going.
2006-06-26 22:58:37 · answer #11 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋