than her husband. They divorced and she is currently married. It gets better. She is half of my husbands age. What to do?
2006-06-26 16:21:34 · 19 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
divorce him
it'sa no brainer
if you stay it only shows you have low esteem
and no self respect foryourself
and your desperate
2006-06-26 16:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, he will do it again with another woman. She will do it again with another man. They do deserve each other.
I don't care what the problems are in your marriage, no one's spouse has the right to do what he is doing to you....
Yes, now it hurts very bad, I understand that. BUT, how much will it hurt the next time and the time after that?? He will be paying child support and visiting the kid and the mother too. He'll have a legal excuse to go there and stay married to you too.
Please kick him out now. If you don't pick up the pieces and move on it will only get worse each time. I would bet this is not the first time he has cheated on you. RUN and don' t look back.
2006-06-26 17:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was once in your shoes.....The feeling is heart breaking and it is very difficult to overcome. My advice to you would be to search your heart to see if you could really get past this and forgive him. And If not, Then it's best that you go your separate way. What she did is irrelevant, it's your husband that was married to you and should have known his boundaries before crossing them....some women get pleasure out of doing things like trapping a married man...And trust me , she will make your life and marriage a living hell..It's not going to be easy I promise you....women like this make me sick....But men, like your husband and mine are honestly the ones to blame. Good Luck and I wish you well.
2006-06-26 16:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by jttatum2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE KIDDING ME RIGHT?
If not, you dump your husband.
He's stupid,
He's ignorant
He's thoughtless
He's insensitive
He's irrisponsible
He's a cheater
He's emotionally immature
He's uncaring
He's disloyal
He's unsupportive
He's clueless
He lacks values in every area
He's an idiot.....
do you need more? Get your own place and start a new and wonderful life with somone with some core values
2006-06-26 16:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. he cheated on you and is having a baby with another woman, who's marriage ended because she was having a baby with another man.... Either sign up for the Young and the Restless... or dump him..
2006-06-26 16:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's ruff. if you want the stresses of all that then work it out with him. why did he cheat? do u think he will again? her situation is screwed up but really doesn't have much to do with you and your husband. he picked a bad chick to lay a seed in. You two have to figure out why he cheated and if he's going to cheat again. better yet will you truly be able to forgive him because if not your going to live a miserable life. Leave if you can't forgive.
2006-06-26 16:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear what that bozo did to you. I don't know what makes him think this tramp won't do to him what she has done to her ex-husband,then to impregnate her he is asking for trouble. I think divorce is the best option once you find out how you can survive with out his support, which you can. don't tell him that you are divorcing him yet, plan first!!!
2006-06-28 04:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love yourself? If you do! Say goodby to this insecure, macho man "looser", otherwise you'll regret it in the future. Life has a lot to offer when somebody look for - if you have children with him you are setting a bad example. Go out become independent (if you don't work) or better yet excel you education. Anything but please love yourself.
2006-06-26 16:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Flakita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
****, IF I WERE YOU I'D GET MY **** AND LEAVE AND TAKE HIM FOR HALF OF WHAT HE'S GOT. THAT IS ONE THING TO HAVE AN AFFAIR---BUT TO GET THE NASTY PIECE OF SLEAZY TRASH PREGNANT? THATS A WHOLE OTHER TOPIC ENTIRELY---I CAN SEE ALL THIS AT THE IN-LAWS OUTING!!!!!!!!!!! **** BE THE **** OUT AND FAST.OBVIOUSLY THE ***** CAN'T KEEP HER LEGS CLOSED AND YOUR HUSBAND CAN'T KEEP FROM BANGING SOMETHING THAT WALKED BY. BE OUT AND GET TO THE CLEANERS- FAST AND I DO MEAN NOT THE CLEANERS ON THE CORNER- FIND A NICE MAN WHO WILL VALUE A MARRIAGE CONTRACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-26 16:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that bag of garbage and find a man who can keep it in his pants, or at least knows how to put on a condom.
This is Jerry Springer material.
2006-06-26 16:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him and send him a box of condoms and ear plugs as a parting gift.
2006-06-26 17:20:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋