Marriage & Divorce - 26 June 2006

MY WIFE HAD A AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER MAN IN JANUARY 06, I CAUGHT HER GETTING INTO HIS CAR WITH HIM & CALLED HER IMMED. TO COME HOME WHICH SHE DID. SHE THEN TOLD ME SHE WOULD STOP TALKING TO & SEEING THIS OTHER MAN. I RECENTLY FOUND OUT SHE HAS BEEN STILL TALKING TO THIS OTHER MAN, SHE ADDMITTED TO TALKING TO HIM ON 5 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS & PROMISED TO BREAK IT OFF WITH HIM. WELL IT HAPPENED AGAIN & NOW I WANT TO KNOW IF I SHALL CONTINUE OUR MARRIAGE OR LEAVE.?

2006-06-26 03:23:34 · 20 answers · asked by BFLY 1

I am a pretty laid back chick. My husband and I have domicile of his four beautiful children from his ex-wife and we have one bundle of love of our own. His ex doesn't help with the kids but expects regular visitation, which we allow her, regardless of the strain it puts us in sometimes. I am not complaining about this. I document everything. Anything she gets from us is sent certified, return receipt. The most recent return receipt I received, she signed her first name, my husband's last name, and her new married name. I can understand the inclination to want to keep the same last name as your children, however, she's been married for 1 1/2 and never signed her name that way before. I generally try to not let this sort of thing get under my skin and I am surprised it did as much as it has. Can someone help me to stop being so mega sensative about this and be a rational person again!? Thanks!

2006-06-26 03:20:46 · 6 answers · asked by Euphoria 2

2006-06-26 03:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by gradyluvlaura 1

He says he thinks about it all the time (BDSM) like different ways to tie me up and other things he'd like to do to me, and uses the computer whenever he's alone. Once in a while I let him do those things, but I'm not into that stuff and it doesn't turn me on, also sometimes it hurts. I've tried to be accomodating to what he's into, letting him know that just cuz I'm not into it, doesn't mean I think he's a freak (he spent many years before me thinking he wasn't normal because of it). We've been together 3 years and only recently has this become a problem. He says his only been this obsessed about it for about a month, that before then it was only like twice a month (which I kinda knew before and was fine with since I have my own things I'm into and would indulge in on the net about that often as well). But I don't know what to do now, it's excessive. He wants to get help. I'm scared that this is going to ruin our marriage, and that he won't be able to change, even though he wants to.

2006-06-26 03:04:58 · 12 answers · asked by Aimee 1

i have a friend who lied about what she went to school for. now her husband may find out the truth. what should she do.

2006-06-26 02:38:54 · 27 answers · asked by ? 4

can you tell if a women loves you, by her letting you make love to her whenever you want?

2006-06-26 02:37:54 · 26 answers · asked by set d 1

Personally, I like the idea of men marrying men and women marrying women. The same sex just goes better with each other.

2006-06-26 02:15:49 · 12 answers · asked by petes2084 1

2006-06-26 02:07:30 · 23 answers · asked by martin69 m 1

2006-06-26 01:59:39 · 12 answers · asked by Beaumeader 3

Man, I've been married for 5 years have two kids, one stepchild, and one bioligical. My wife and I are not close intimately anymore. I have a real high sex drive, my wife the opposite. I tried to suggest her some prescription to enhance the libido, she doesn't want to try it. I feel like as a man and a human being, I should never desert my family over my own pleasures! I have a daughter that needs her father no matter what to be present in her life(biological) everyday of her life. I know also that I turn my head when I see a woman I'm attracted to as well. Wondering if I can find my sexual desire that I've been looking for with a stranger lady. Which shows that I'm not satisfied sexually, but as a married man and a religous person of God it's wrong to cheat. I don't really want to lose my marriage to sex, but naturally God made me sexually active at a high level. Help me out on this one, please somebody!?!?

2006-06-26 01:36:47 · 23 answers · asked by Shawn J 2

Is there a point when it becomes too complicated to keep each other pleased? Feelings get hurt, insecurity sets in, performance changes for the worse or better, drive goes up and down, and frustration sets in. Does asking for what you want or communicating to each other things that "work" or"dont' work" cause problems or help in the bedroom?

2006-06-26 01:36:18 · 5 answers · asked by paintgirl 4

2006-06-26 01:21:37 · 6 answers · asked by paco 1

Im a pure virgin. not afraid about.
but it hurts me that they rely on papers instead of persons.
should I continue with the alliance?

2006-06-26 01:18:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

each time he wants to tell me something ,he just starts the sentence or he would pork me his finger to attract my attention.this really gets to me and he wont say why he does this.this has been going on for almost two years.

2006-06-26 00:52:17 · 20 answers · asked by gnb 1

2006-06-26 00:20:28 · 18 answers · asked by jill j 1

It should be finished for only 8 months or less...

2006-06-26 00:03:59 · 13 answers · asked by glamgirl 1