while i was on vaca, my child told me there was a girl in my bed in the AM. I need to prove this to be true. i saved the sheets so they could be tested for hair, body fluids etc that doesnt belong to myself or my child. Where can i take these sheets to be tested and how much does it cost? Minnesota/nw wisconsin area please
2006-06-26 16:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by lilwind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
of course my hubby denies it, can u help?
2006-06-26 16:47:20 · update #1
Yes, we can help. If it's gotten this bad, to the point where you have to have sheets tested..... you already have a serious problem in the relationship.
here's what you do. If you love your husband, you tell him :listen, whether or not someone was here, my trust is broken. I want to go to counseling" then you go together for 6 sessions. talk about these issues with the counselor,. YOu'll be amazed at what people will reveal in therapy,
If you don't love your husband, then this is probably a good time to think about being on your own.
You don't want to start running around town looking for a lab. Just deal with the issue at hand.
2006-06-26 16:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are peobably other issues going on in your relationship. You know your kids. Talk to your husband. I wish I knew of a place to get sheets/articles of clothing tested, but since I don't you have to go with your gut instinct. Tell your husband that you can't trust him and that you think you need time apart. See how he reacts. You know him so you should be able to read him. Also, he disrespected you even more because your child was there. That is unacceptable.
Good Luck, sorry I couldn't be more help.
2006-06-27 09:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask an attorney. Or call the police and ask to speak to the medical examiner and see if he/she has a recommendation of a testing lab that could perform the tests.
2006-06-26 16:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY A POLICE OFFICER, HE MAY TELL YOU OR GIVE U A SUGGESTION. IM TAKING A CSI COURSE AND YOU SHOULD PUT THE SHEETS IN A PLASTIC BAG AND SEAL THEM. YOU MAY NEED THIS FOR DIVORCE COURT.
2006-06-26 16:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang that sucks :( sorry to hear about that ... but dont black lights show bodily fluids? isnt that what they use in the movies? or is it something specifically for that? well i wish ya luck
2006-06-26 16:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by brandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust your husband, divorce him, this seems a little exessive to me. Frankly, if I were your hubby, I'd dump you....
2006-06-26 17:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by one_charmed_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋