Marriage & Divorce - 18 June 2006

The most common problems with relationships I've seen on here is lack of communication. Are there any couples that actually do talk and sit down together and work through lifes problems? Or have we forgotten how to talk to our spouse?

2006-06-18 11:51:06 · 11 answers · asked by RM802001 2

if your boyfriend said he didn't know what he wanted anymore and that he didn't know why he wasn't happy anymore doesn't that basically mean its over. he claims to still love you but you get the feelings things have changed.would you stay.any advice would be nice.if anyone has been here i would like your input.

2006-06-18 11:49:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm terribly lonely & depressed. I've almost given up hope of finding someone that I can grow old with. I need to hear from some of you that have been in my situation, but are now happy with someone. How you met, details, etc. I need some hope people!!!!

2006-06-18 11:47:40 · 21 answers · asked by manatee lover 2

Is revenge a childish thing? A natural thing? or is it something that everyone has to do to be able to go on with life once they have been hurt by a cheating spouse?
Or is it best left for them to get what they deserve on their own??

2006-06-18 11:22:04 · 31 answers · asked by soulmate_n_nc 3

of 14 years,want me to move out. His business partner is my sister ( we had a fight and are not speaking) .she is revengefull person who would luv to cause me greif . and he is a softy. first time ever hes sleeping in other bed.what should i do?leave or ride it out, i do luv him

2006-06-18 11:13:04 · 16 answers · asked by shere_delight 1

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 year (i'm 20 yrs old , he's about to 23 next month). i havent said anything because i dont want him to ask me bc its what i want. i just want to hint to him CASUALLY. suggestions??

2006-06-18 11:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-18 10:59:31 · 5 answers · asked by damiano 1

My ex and I have been divorced 5 years now. We have 2 little kids together. He has been remarried for two years. He is unhappy in this new marriage, saying it "just doesn't feel right." He wants to come "home" and be with his real family, raising his own kids, not his stepchildren. We had a very tumultous and violent relationship when we were married, but I think we've both grew up. Things don't feel right to me being a single mom and being away from my kids on weekends and holidays when they are with him.

He wants to work things out, he's said this on and off for years now. He hasn't been abusive to his new wife, which leads me to believe maybe he has changed. The kids hate going back and forth and want their daddy home. Should I try to work it out with him? Anyone in this situation?

2006-06-18 10:33:16 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3

I have been married to her for 15 years. When I woke up the morning of our "honeymoon" I thought to myself I can make this work for the kids. I have lasted this long but am to the point of feeling 80% of the time that I just don't like almost everything about her. I keep having this dream of being in that "movie" type of true love where I just want to be with this woman and love looking at her and being with her and talking to her. I long to love someone but do not want to screw up my teenage son. Our daughter is 21 and out of the house and she wonders how I stay with her mom the way she has been for the past couple of years. Well I think I'm rambling, so any comments will be read and appreciated, thanks.

2006-06-18 10:01:47 · 14 answers · asked by uffda_1971 1

My parents moved to Spain. They have a few items registered at my home address, ie driving licences, credit card (only 1). My husband tells me every time he sees post addressed to them that he has had enough of them using our address. I am at my wits end. Do I tell them they are wrong to use our address or is my husband being unreasonable?

2006-06-18 09:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by viki 1

she wants out after 25 yrs. I make 59k, she makes 29k She does have a Master's degree , I think she could make more

2006-06-18 08:57:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-18 08:42:52 · 17 answers · asked by Rashaan P 2

2006-06-18 08:38:37 · 25 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

2006-06-18 08:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some peole on here posted some angry comments, because I hit on waitresses (Really any females in service industries are possible future rendezous) but before you get too judgemental consider this: When I married my wife she was thin and attractive, now she's kind of chunky. I think I'm doing her a solid by cheating in secret instead of divorcing her. After all who else would marry her now that she's beefed up? I know it seems mean but think about it, I'm kind of doing her a favor. Besides, she's set to inherit several million when her mother passes and I don't think I'm ready to walk out on that. Would you?

2006-06-18 08:33:28 · 37 answers · asked by Pumpkin Head 4

2006-06-18 08:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by otis494276 1

I married my high school sweetheart 10 years ago. We are happily married with two children. About 5 years ago I met someone that I just can't explain my relationship with him. I catch myself thinking about him a lot. I can't wait to see him again. He's so easy to talk to and makes me happy even when I'm down. He's married too. My husband knows about him but doesn't personally know him. There's a strong physical attraction that has lead to a few sexual encounters that my husband and his wife know nothing about. In fact, his wife doesn't know I exist. My husband and I have a very close relationship, we are best friends. I have no secrets, except this one. My question is do you think it's possible to have a completely happy marriage and still have an interest like this outside the marriage?

Just another curve ball, my husband is so open and secure about our relationship, I could probably tell him I have these feelings and he wouldn't feel threatened, but I'm scared to.

2006-06-18 08:29:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She and I have talked about marriage. even if she isnt jewish, can my kids still be raised jewish?

2006-06-18 08:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by dm 1

A woman married a DOLPHIN once.!!!

2006-06-18 08:00:03 · 36 answers · asked by THE ONE 3

i'm in a relationship.......but i don't love him any more.....but i hate to hurt him.....i'm a kind heart 'd person......i'ma run down some of da things he did to me to give u a betta picture.....
1. he cheated on me....(it took him a year to tell me)
2.he's ova protective....
3.he hits me when i don't obey him
4.he talk to alot of chicks
5.he's always try'n to keep me in da house
ok.....i'ma very pretty gurl....
i can get damn near anybody i want....but plz help me.....if ya want to kno more.....*treasure_mommy@yahoo.com*

2006-06-18 07:58:14 · 18 answers · asked by treasure_mommy 1

2006-06-18 07:46:48 · 13 answers · asked by ali_endo 1

I mean, ya already gotcher man...

2006-06-18 07:38:27 · 26 answers · asked by ******** 5

how to deal.. i m male

2006-06-18 07:26:06 · 11 answers · asked by helix 3

2006-06-18 07:25:39 · 36 answers · asked by Patience 6

any body got any ideas as to what i should do?

2006-06-18 07:21:22 · 17 answers · asked by cinders 2

It didn't last very long. He started out by calling me at my post a few times a day to 'chat'. We started getting more and more dirty on the phone, and within a couple weeks we were kissing, I was masturbating for him to listen to on my phone, and we were discussing our sexual fantacies for each other.

One day, his wife found an online journal that he hid that said all of the stuff we did with each other. I got real scared, told him that day that I was gonna try to fix it up with my boyfriend and have worried ever since that his wife will hunt me down and hurt me in some way. I didn't have any feelings or anything for him during our time together, but when he said his wife found his stuff online, I figured he was gonna leave her and I knew I didn't like him enough for that to happen, cuz I didn't want to leave my home life for him. The whole thing was pretty stupid, but I still have this gut feeling about his wife.

What should I do?

2006-06-18 07:08:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 6 weeks ago my wife said she did not have feelings for me and more and has since said she wants a divorce. Since that time I have been following her and found out that she has been running around with a 27 year old male "friend" from work (she is 24). She has been going to movies, meeting on weekend nights for an "innocent" night out with friends. I caught them out a midnight on Friday night and ended up chasing them down and making threats to to man. I have a 4 year old daughter and don't want to do anything stupid. Every night she is out I cannot sleep, my stomach is in knots, and I don't eat. It is killing me and she just don't care. I just cannot seem to let go. I have left my home, and job in order to escape the pain. My wife was fine with me taking my daugher with (gives her more time to have fun). I am at my parent's house 400 miles away but remain totally consumed with what my wife is doing. We have been married 6 years. I find happiness in nothing. Any good advice?

2006-06-18 06:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by Scott B 2

2006-06-18 06:38:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

She never does anything special, never does anything romantic, sex life is bad to nonexistant (as passionate as dry toast), never defends, ignores when her friends are around, leads desparate ugly lonely men on thinking she is interested in them and even when you talk to her about it she never really listens to it. and only really cares when she is not feeling good? What would you think about a successful better twin of yourself in the opposite sex?

2006-06-18 06:33:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He never does anything special, never does anything romantic, sex life is bad to nonexistant (as passionate as dry toast), never defends, ignores when his friends are around, leads desparate ugly lonely women on thinking he is interested in them and even when you talk to him about it he never really listens to it. and only really cares when he is not feeling good? What would you think about a successful better twin of yourself in the opposite sex?

2006-06-18 06:30:41 · 49 answers · asked by Guy Smiley 1