2006-06-18 07:25:39 · 36 answers · asked by Patience 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My guess is he was seeing someone else well before the marriage or at the very least having constant contact with someone. Maybe a fellow worker, an old flame or an accquaintance of a friend. Either way, I'd be willing to bet this cheating isn't new just since the marriage.
2006-06-18 07:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There can be a lot of reasons. The first is usually that he is unhappy with himself. He may be going through a mid life thing. The point is that you should not take it personal. You are the same person that he married a couple months ago so the problem must be with in himself. He must love you or he wouldn't have married you. You might want to suggest to him to talk to a counselor.
2006-06-18 07:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK A 44 YEAR OLD MAN WHO HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 2 MONTHS
2006-06-21 14:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by tykasia32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he was cheating on someone else before and its a pattern and maybe this dog has several,, viagra or money or age will do horrible things as we run out our lives,, men have to debate doing whatever as a last time could be today ,,,so some with low character sex any one that winks or smiles and then act attonished that its aquestion ,,,dump a guy who is so lost ,,,but take what you can ,,,,maybe a loss of finance will wake up his spiritual side and he will grow into a mature man finally
2006-06-18 07:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he actually has an issue with being faithful. He has little or no respect for you or for the values of a marriage. Sounds like you made a bad choice in a husband. Get an anulment, and look for a real man not a boy.
2006-06-18 07:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason a man of any age or length of marriage cheats, because he can & because he can't/won't resist temptation.
If a man will cheat on a woman as beautiful as say, Halle Berry, for example, what chance have we (mere mortal women) that our man isn't going to cheat. Not much, I dare say.
2006-06-18 07:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by dixie_til_i_die 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you only just caught him! He's probably been cheating all along but crafty about hiding it. You might want to look into the annulment rules for your area of residency. At 44, he's probably well set into his pattern of life.
2006-06-18 07:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are habitual cheaters--it doesn't matter whether the relationship they're in is good or bad, they're going to cheat regardless. This is a man who will always cheat.
2006-06-18 07:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he did not marry you for all the right reasons had he loved you he would not have cheated. Move on girl if he did it so early in your marriage he will do it again.
2006-06-18 07:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by damonsbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a problem he can't keep under control...I'm sure it's been going on much longer than 2 months...What a dead beat someone needs to kick em to the curb now..
2006-06-18 07:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋