of 14 years,want me to move out. His business partner is my sister ( we had a fight and are not speaking) .she is revengefull person who would luv to cause me greif . and he is a softy. first time ever hes sleeping in other bed.what should i do?leave or ride it out, i do luv him
2006-06-18 11:13:04 · 16 answers · asked by shere_delight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why are you waiting for him to tell you what HE wants, life is short, make up your own mind, in YOUR best interest, why waste time on someone who doesn't really want you, but keeps you around because it is easier than dumping you????????
you deserve better, now make yourself believe it and you can move on
good luck
2006-06-19 03:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 23:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make him miserable and stay in the house but find a man on the side and never let him find out always no matter how far he push you play the victim for all you know he might be screwing your sister
2006-06-18 11:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see that the marriage is going no where then leave. But first try to work things out, but if it doesnt work out for the best, then go your way. And your sister will get what she deserves dont worry bout her.
2006-06-18 11:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your sister has to do with this, but your husband is definitely mentally abusive. It's always hard to leave someone you love, but sometimes you need to do what is best for you. Good luck.
2006-06-18 11:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who has been there. Start putting money up NOT IN YOUR NAME and decide that you deserve to be happy. This is the one life we get this is the big show not a dress rehearsal...get out and live your life honey.
2006-06-18 11:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 14 years surely yall can work through it , couple have fights and then forgive . he is just mad and saying things he dont mean when he cools off hell maybe be different and if not well im sorry and i quess youll just have ot move on
2006-06-18 11:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust your sister i trusted mine. My sister had an affair with my husband , She was the one person i trusted my life with. You have a big choice ahead of you,try to choose with your head not your heart.....
2006-06-19 08:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it that easy for them..Ride it out and ride it for everything you can get...Smile be happy and get every thing you can.
2006-06-18 11:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. How long does it take you to catch on?? This isn't the first time that he's told you he doesn't love you....are you thick???
2006-06-18 13:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋