Marriage & Divorce - 18 June 2006

2006-06-18 17:31:36 · 26 answers · asked by Food4Thought 1

She let me take our son with me but wants me to bring him back in a month when i return to ne (where i live) She will not try coucling. I love this women with all of my heart and soul. she is my world, on the man to women level. Everyone else always said we were made for eachother. She was so sweet now she is just being mean. I am scared of the thought of being 22 divorced with a 2 year old little boy seems like a lot of baggage. The reason why i am going out on the street and not her is because she was the bread winnner while i was a stay at home daddy so that our son didnt have to go to child care. She has told me for the past 2 1/2 years thatshe doesnt want me to work. Now she says all this. I just want to drift into a light pole while im driving. I dont know what to do. I want her back. Does everyone really feel like its too late. i plan on giving her, her space if thats what she needs.

2006-06-18 17:21:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf went to rehab and I am 8 months pregnant with our fourth. I found a girl wrote on his folder from rehab and left her number. He got out Thurs. She got out Sat. Anyway. SHe has been calling him since she got out. I heard their convo and he was planning on calling her a work...(while he was at work on his lunch). When I walk in he tells her he has to call her back. We have been together 8 years and nothing like this has ever happen. I am a mess and don;t know if i should be upset and if he might want her??What do you guys think? I asked him to stop tlaking to her and he tells me he would but I found out htat he plans to call her now at work. what should i do???/

2006-06-18 17:14:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had alot of issues with my fiance' for one year. I was very sinsitive to the things he said to me. He was very insensitive to me and was a controlling man. Many times he threatend to leave me. At that time I did not have feelings 4 him but he did 4 me. Now I love him more than ever. And I told him I love him alot. So now he is very good to me. But I was foolish and told my sis everything that went wrong with my fiance. I was just telling my sis about the rough idea on who should be in my wedding. Like my best friend will be my maid of honor and my sister will be one of the brides maids along with 3 of her 4 children as flower girls. She is mad now that I didn't have her as my maid of honer and I excluded her 2 year old as one of the flower girls. I am going to visit my sis with my fiance' in 2 months. I am affraid I messed everything up and she might tell him that I was talking about him to her. Could he break up with me if he found out? Am I a bad person?What should I do?

2006-06-18 17:13:06 · 31 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1

2006-06-18 17:10:03 · 39 answers · asked by neo 1

I have loved my wife since i was in the 7th grade, we havent been togeather the whole time but we have been married for 3 years. She told me last month that she wasnt in love with me anymore and sasy she doesnt know why. She said she wanted me to show her that i loved her more since then i was have been waking her up with her favorite coffie rubbing her feet when she gets off work and giving her flowers anything and everything i could think of to the point where i was buring myself out. Just treating her like a total princess. Even calling her princess. telling her she looked beautiful everyday. Complimenting her new outfits and actually noticing. She was even sending me e-cards saying hi and i love you to me. Last sunday she said she still wasnt in love with me and said she wanted to seperate and i had to find my own place and leave her alone and she was going to date other people. To respect her wishes i took our son and left town for a month (current) Now she is dating someone else

2006-06-18 16:56:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a married woman who is in a loveless relationship, she and her husband hav not had sex for 4 years, they sleep in separte rooms and don't really communicate. I know she loves me, but, I am very religious and don't believe in divorce. Is it wrong to stay in this type of relationship? Even though they had no sex life before I came in the picture, will i be considered as a home wrecker? Does she deserve to be married to someone he does not love? and how would God view this situation?

2006-06-18 16:50:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a married man who is in a loveless relationship, him and his wife hav not had sex for 4 years, they sleep in separte rooms and don't really communicate. I know he loves me, but, I am very religious and don't believe in divorce. Is it wrong to stay in this type of relationship? Even though they had no sex life before I came in the picture, will i be considered as a home wrecker? Does he deserve to be married to someone he does not love? and how would God view this situation?

2006-06-18 16:48:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that if when you are miserable, you get the whole family feeling that way? We moved and my wife hates it here, wants to move back. The fact has made my life miserable and now I'm fighting depression.
Just want to know why some women do this (most of them I met are like this).

2006-06-18 16:44:38 · 15 answers · asked by n9wff 6

We are both very poor and he does not want to have contact with our kids and wont be paying child support. He was very physically abusive to all of us. We have no assests. We live in Michigan which is a "no-fault" state. I do not know he whereabouts, so I am unable to get him to sign any papers. Any advice?

2006-06-18 16:41:55 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-06-18 16:40:15 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda A 2

2006-06-18 16:39:45 · 21 answers · asked by sleepless07 1

I absolutely hate being divorced, I wish my ex wasn't so selfish. He never let me be a stay at home mom with the kids, but the minute he moved his wife in, she became a stay at home mom. Now they have the kids 40% of the time and I hate being a part time parent. I never really got a chance to be a full time mom like she is to her kids. He brought the kids home tonight and they cried an hour for him after he left. It really sucks my kids got the raw end of the deal because of his selfishness. They always want to be at daddy's, my life revolves around custody schedules. He's ruined my life. Anyone relate?

2006-06-18 16:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

Happy Dad's day everyone!!!! Or if you are the husband what did your wife or kids do for you?

2006-06-18 16:30:51 · 17 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6

2006-06-18 16:19:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-18 16:16:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-18 16:16:15 · 15 answers · asked by ford_lovergirl_69 2

my husband has some dark secret about his childhood that either causes him to hide in a dark bathroom for hours when it's brought up, or get incredibly angry at me when i try to get him to talk about it. his relationship with his mom is almost non existent, maybe once a year he sees her, his stepdads a load of crap, and his real father hasn't been seen since he was 6. displays of emotion have always made him uncomfortable, but he at least USED to show me affection....it seems like something has caught up with him and it is changing him not for the better. if i try to talk about it, he won't speak to me for days, and it's like he gets a panicked look in his face. any ideas what it might be? my guy doesn't get scared at all about anything. we have been together for nearly 5 years, and this is the first time i have seen him get nightmares and cry out in his sleep. its tearing me up that he can't confide in me, or that something is hurting him so much.....

2006-06-18 16:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by mrs_eke 2

2006-06-18 16:13:36 · 5 answers · asked by Sh 1

I do not know how prenump's work. And I do not want to be left with nothing if we get a devorce. God fordid.

2006-06-18 16:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by Fairy Lover 1

I'm lost in a maze of grief, hurt, anger and jealousy after my marriage ended. I feel that I will never get through this, can't imagine being happy again. Have you been in the same situation and what did you do?

2006-06-18 15:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by Lotte T 3

2006-06-18 15:57:29 · 5 answers · asked by Pigeon by the Pond 1

2006-06-18 15:55:14 · 24 answers · asked by e_guanajuato 3

2006-06-18 15:51:56 · 37 answers · asked by sweetie 4

I enjoy compliments from this guy at work, this is the attention that I don't get from home . Am I wrong for that.

2006-06-18 15:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by GG 1

Why cant I be ok when Im alone? I feel miserable being by myself. How do you get through divorce without wanting to kill yourself? I would never actually kill myself because I have children though and I have faith in god.

2006-06-18 15:34:44 · 18 answers · asked by miranda 2

2006-06-18 15:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by suminlin22 1

i made the mistake of cheating on my wife and i want to tell her but i'm afraid of what she will do.

2006-06-18 15:21:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-18 15:02:37 · 3 answers · asked by rolly a 1

My question is. If I commit to the counseling my husband wants is it better to live together while going to counseling or to live apart while going to counseling to get some space?
My husband is verbally abusive although he swears he will change and has been good for a few weeks. I care about him but am not "in love" with him anymore.
Also, to complicate matters I have a male friend who I have known for ten years and we have developed feelings for each other although there has been no sex.
So, what do you think? Counseling before divorce while living together or separate and then seek counseling?

2006-06-18 15:00:45 · 10 answers · asked by anonymous41 1