I absolutely hate being divorced, I wish my ex wasn't so selfish. He never let me be a stay at home mom with the kids, but the minute he moved his wife in, she became a stay at home mom. Now they have the kids 40% of the time and I hate being a part time parent. I never really got a chance to be a full time mom like she is to her kids. He brought the kids home tonight and they cried an hour for him after he left. It really sucks my kids got the raw end of the deal because of his selfishness. They always want to be at daddy's, my life revolves around custody schedules. He's ruined my life. Anyone relate?
2006-06-18 16:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Doesn't sound like he ruined your life, sounds like you are feeling sorry for yourself. If you have joint custody then spend your time with them having fun and being a good parent not thinking about how unfair it is. They need both of you and you need to get on with your life, prove to your babies that their mom is a strong and independent woman that adores them. They may get away with more at their dad's, that just makes him the irresponsible parent. Don't feel down about the divorce, think about how to make yourself happy so that your babies will be happy with you!
2006-06-18 16:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by gypsilee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 07:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have use all that time and energy to save the marriage in the first place ...... look now what you ended up with..... you thought you could win the fight ?? guess again.... the power is really staying together... I dont want to make things worst ... but really ...you are the one that is divorced and he is not !! ..... so sad ... only if you had put in more effort!!
2006-06-18 18:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i hated it when i had to divorce my second husband because he abandoned us but God sent my wonderful husband my way that i have today and has really blessed my life with him and with this marriage. Sometimes we dont see past the pain but God allows things to happen for a reason and sometimes the outcome is far better then the pain and that past that brought us to that point. I can relate to you but i also know that you will get past this and be able to move on with your life someday.
2006-06-18 16:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please make the best of the time that you do have your children and learn to just appreciate that time together and make it great so that they don't miss there father so much and please make sure not to talk bad about their father to them this will just make you look like the bad person in the end.
2006-06-18 16:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, it sucks... but, you and the children will adapt...i've been through it and alot of men/women have also....
2006-06-19 22:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋