Do you love your spouse the same as when you first met?

Answer 1

it's not exactly the same, it's different because of the things we have faced together in life. not relationship things, but some of those hardcore things that happened for no reason that we have had to deal with together. we do have a much stronger bond between us now though.

Answer 2

that is the most important secret to me there is. If I married me, i'd have divorced me a lengthy time period in the past. i'd have kicked my butt so not common, i'd ought to open my zipper to eat breakfast. i ought to no more effective positioned up with me than the guy contained in the moon. Having expounded on that, i guess i'd have executed some thing precise because i'm no longer overly handsome,svelte, proper, wealthy or none of the different good things. i must have in simple terms pulled an fairly effectual con pastime that has lasted 37 years to this point,counting the 4 years relationship and engagement previous to the marriage. do not tell my spouse she were given took.

Answer 3

Yes. And when things get rough or I feel out of touch so to speak, I think of what it was that I fell in love with about him. I reminisce about the first date and the butterflies and how much I wanted it to work and how good he is to me. I tend to act a little spoiled from time to time because he does treat me so well. But there is no such thing as being perfect on either side. So when reality sets in and we have a fight or feel like we're losing it then we "go back in time". It may sound corny but it does help.

Answer 4

I love him more know than I did 10 yrs ago.We have had time to grow and get to know each other more.We had alot of hard times, but in the end, it was ALL worth it and I would do it all over again.My husband is not only my spouse but my best friend.I love him more than life itself and I know our relationship is 100% stronger than it was back when we first met.

Answer 5

Yes, even more, however it is completely different than it was in the beginning. In the beginning it was about someone new and wonderful, know it is about making me laugh and being with me in life. It is not like that every day. Sometimes we go through difficult times and I wonder if it is all worth it. But what you have to do is weigh the pro's and con's. If your list of pro's is longer than the con's than don't give up on it too fast. Stick with it and see where it takes you.

Answer 6

my husband and i have been together through so much good and bad. there have been fleeting instances where i had a thought of unlove for him, but it passed instantly. every day that we go through, changes my love for him. sometimes it is an angry love, which is a hard one to deal with, but at the end of the day, as i watch him sleep, the anger drains away and all i feel is tenderness and yearning. i know him better now, so i love him more and in different ways. no matter how horrible he is to me, or i am to him, i can't make myself stop loving him. it is a scary thought, but also a very comforting one.

Answer 7

No, I love her more because I've come to know her so much more. Plus, love grows every day when you know you've made the right decision, which I know I did.

Love is ever changing. You can't stay in that 'first love' situation forever, or you'll never grow beyond that and move on.

Answer 8

Kinda...if youve known someone since sevenght grade and have dated for 8 years and then married for 6 and only 33 you could get a lil tired of each other.

Answer 9

No, actually. We are having problems and are fixing to go through a seperation. We have been together for 19 years, married for 17. Sometimes, things just happen.

Answer 10

Too many hurtful things have been said to me by him over the years and I just don't feel the same tenderness for him I once did.