2006-06-18 16:39:45 · 21 answers · asked by sleepless07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't walk...RUN!!!
2006-06-18 16:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by jaemers24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you make a plan . . . if he is the stalker/agressive type. carefully pack important things that you NEED. Try to get a place of your own or stay with a trust worthy family member or friend. I'm sure you know when he's around or not . . . when everything is in order you leave and you never look back. You don't need to say anything to him if he's a pyscho. If you feel a frightened get a restraining order so if he comes near you all you do is call the cops and he goes to jail.
2006-06-18 16:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by 5857123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you leave and separate and then you seek counseling and therapy to help you get past this and move on. How bad is the abuse and what type of abuse is it and how long has this been going on? Are you married to this person or not? Are you the one being abused? Get out and away from the abuse as fast as you can! Dont hang around for me and stop choosing to be a victim and get the help you need to get past the pain of this and become and overcomer!
2006-06-18 16:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong, get a plan of where you can go where he has never been. Hide there, leave him, move on, get excited about your wonderful new life, pray to GOD!
This is what worked for me. I am just out of a 4 year physically abusive relationship. And I feel SO much better!
2006-06-18 16:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to run, You figure out a plan and go with that plan, make sure you have everything you need. When your in a abusive relationship it never gets better and they always say... I'm going to change, but they don't.
Below is a couple websites to look at.
Good luck
2006-06-18 16:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by kitty45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u realize enough is enough and u are truly tired of the abuse u will know what to do all the advice in the world will not help u u have to help ur self and u arn't going to do that until u r truly tired of the BULL***T wake up and smell the coffee reality is ugly and it is even uglyier when it smaks u in the face if u look at ur make and that is ur reality a smack in the face it is time to wake up and make some changes for ur self only u can help u
2006-06-25 10:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by cbigmama77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was easy for me, after I was bored of beating my wife and girlfriend I simply walked out the door. Easy as 1-2-3.
2006-06-18 16:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your stuff and get the hell out of there. We don't want to hear something bad happened to you. Go stay with a friend or family member til you can get your own place. Good Luck.
2006-06-18 16:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a abusive relationship,get out of it as quick as you can.Talk to someone for help,a friend,sibling,parent,etc.Life is too short not to be happy,and no one should have to be abused in this life.It is not right and not fair to you.Do what you have to do to walk away,no matter what!!!
2006-06-18 16:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move if you have to and if you don't change the lock, your phone number, warn neighbors, seek an abusive hot line, tell your friends so they can help protect you and if all that fails contact me and well beat the **** out of him
2006-06-18 16:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself you do not have to put up with this. Your well being and safety comes first. It's your life, always be in control of it and no where it is written that anyone has the right to abuse you.
2006-06-18 16:45:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋