I met a married woman who is in a loveless relationship, she and her husband hav not had sex for 4 years, they sleep in separte rooms and don't really communicate. I know she loves me, but, I am very religious and don't believe in divorce. Is it wrong to stay in this type of relationship? Even though they had no sex life before I came in the picture, will i be considered as a home wrecker? Does she deserve to be married to someone he does not love? and how would God view this situation?
2006-06-18 16:50:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it wrong? You have to ask! You can't be that clueless.
If she decides she doesn't deserve it, she will get a divorce.
You are very religious, yet its ok with you to be lusting and chasing after another man's wife?
The moment she decides she doesn't like being married to this person and gets a divorce, she will be only interested in someone who is honorable, which means you are out!
Time for you to reboot, and find someone else, except this time you will proceed in an honorable fashion.
2006-06-18 16:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what condition the marriage is in, she is still there. Yes, it is wrong to see a married person. If people call you a home wrecker or not has nothing to do with the fact that you are seeing another man's wife. You have no right to do that.
I don't know what religion you practice, but I think a divorce is better than adultry anyway you look at it. If it is so unbearable, why is she still with him? You don't stay in a train wreck of a marriage for the sake of staying......Have you asked her why they don't have sex? Four years is a very long time. Does he (husband) see other people too? I am sure he does.
I don't want to hear her excuse for staying with him is because of the kids. Any professional will tell you your kids are better off in a single family home without the mom and dad fighting and treating each other like dirt. It doesn't show the kids what a marriage or relationship should be.
Your last question you asked was, "and how would God view this situation?" I asked a very wise person once what the definition of sin was? Without any hesitation he said, "a sin is when you hurt another living soul and know what you are doing, but you do it anyway."
Give that some thought.
2006-06-19 00:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to cheat on anyone. If your sooo religious then you already know the answer to your own question. She made a commitment to that man and the man upstairs. Sometimes you have to get a divorce...especially if your not in love or happy. Why don't they seek some counciling? If that does not work then get a divorce. You are always going to be wrong when your stepping into someone elses marriage. I say back off...tell her to call you when the divorce is final and shes a single woman.
2006-06-18 23:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are religious than you know not to be with someone wife. Get out of this relationship it wouldn't work because how can you ever trust her she cheated on her husband. Sex isn't everything in a relationship. If she doesn't love him she has to be the adult and divorce him. She is just using you to get out of your relationship and you are using her because she is helpless Life is short and all you guys need to be honest and do the right thing.
2006-06-19 00:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by tannya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is married. That is a committment before man and God. The Bible says the only time a divorce is right in the eyes of God is when there is infidelity, but there is still the sin of adultery. You should wait until this woman is divorced, ask for forgiveness from the Lord, abstain from sexual relations until the two of you are married, and ask Him for His blessing.
2006-06-18 23:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are religious, if so, what is God's will for you today man? What is it that you should be doing? I think the answer is written on the wall for you - stop seeing this woman and tell her to get serious about getting her marriage that has been off the road back on track. I can only guess she's trying to take the easy way out here.
2006-06-18 23:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Yue C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
home wrecker--partly. although they're not divorced yet, they still have the family. you could be the reason for anyone of them to push through with the divorce. i considered myself a home wrecker once before when i had a relationship with a guy i met on wealthymendotcom. i found nothing wrong with it because he already split with his wife but their children were still trying to get them back together. at first i thought i can go through it but after two months, i passed out. i realized that i have a family and i don't want anybody to ruin my parent's relationship,too.
2006-06-19 04:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by trixy a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adultery is adultery no matter how you look at it. Whether she is happy or unhappy in her marriage, she is still married. If you are religious you know that you have already sinned. You have looked at her with lust and that is adultery. No matter if you have had sex with her or not. You know in your heart that what you are doing is wrong. She needs to get divorced or stop doing that to her husband. He doesn't deserve it. Divorce may be something you don't believe in but adultery is something I think is worse. You are breaking a commandment. You are coveting your neighbors wife.
2006-06-19 00:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by doc_is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thing God would want her to work on her relationship with her husband. If you are religious then you know this. God made marriage to last forever. You cannot pursue this relationship with a married woman. It would be wrong and ruin every chance of her getting her marriage together.
2006-06-18 23:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Eme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making up stupid imaginary questions and get a LIFE! There are no women, married OR single having any affairs with you. Get out of your fantasy world and come into reality. You ain't all that you're cracking up to be. You even claimed in your own post that you are a pig with no morals. You have got to be the most pathetic person on Yahoo answers!
2006-06-19 11:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋