Friends - August 2007

So tell me....?

I am a very confidant girl, I don't care about what people think and I don't listen to their bad thoughts of me, and lately I have been super nice to people and super positive about everything I do, its actually been really good, but I have my opinions and I like what I like when people talk to me they try to push their stuff onto me and make me think like them, I have never changed what I thought for anyone and I am not about to start now, but since I have started being nice to everyone (not back into school yet but people I have hung out with) are saying I am being super nice to people because I want attention from their boyfriends, Idc that they are saying these things but how stupid is that? haha...I read a book that showed me that be the normal "pretty thin girl" isn't everything I mean no affense to the pretty thin girls lol, but that book may have saved my life..how anyone read anything that has helped them this much lately?

2007-08-22 08:59:23 · 2 answers · asked by MissBlueEyes 3

I've been friends with this girl for about 14 years. However, when we have any type of disagreements, she has always turned the situation on me regardless it being her fault or mine. Pretty much she is the type of person who feels she is never wrong, etc. She is also very confrontational and I almost feel like I have to walk on eggshells with her. So the way I deal with her is not communicate with her on a daily basis and sometimes we don't even speak because she is so out-spoken about everything and I almost feel that she never lets the past go and always has something to throw in my face. Any way, has anyone had any childhood friends that they have discontinued their friendship with because of similiar circumstances? I hate to throw away a friendship, but I feel as we gotten older that we are also growing apart and no longer have things in common. Any stories to share? Should I just cut the friendship off seeing there really isn't a friendship anymore?

2007-08-22 08:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 08:50:23 · 1 answers · asked by JoJuWaJa 1

ok schools coming in like 5 days
should i wear my best outfit or save it 4 l8er?
should i be early or wait 4 my friends 2 arrive and be a lil late but not like late late?
also wat do i say 2 my crush when i see him?

2007-08-22 08:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've only done it once when I was at newspaper one night..I phoned my mom and asked for persmission and she agreed since we just went over to my friends house for a bit. Now I would like to be able and go out with my friends more often.. How should I ask for persmission to be in the car with friends without an adult?

2007-08-22 08:35:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I have this friend who seems to want to do everything I do. As an example, I play guitar. I've played for a couple months and really enjoy it. It's really the only talent I have and I love it. It's basically my life from now on and I know I want to be a musician. But then, I thought it'd be alright if I taught her the opening to "Smoke On The Water". Easy? Yes. It's only 4 different notes and she picked up, slowly, but she got it. Now, she says she "loves the guitar". She also tells other people that she "plays guitar" although she doesn't own one and only knows the intro to 1 song. It's been 2 months since I taught her and now, shes going out with her father to buy one. I play more than her and it's my life. She plays for leisure and I believe that she only wants ot be popular at school. And, I love rock music and make songs. Weird how she loves that now huh? Is it just me or does she want to steal my spotlight? How can I tell her it bothers me without hurting her feelings?

2007-08-22 08:17:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live all my teen trapped in the house because i am over weight now i have no life what should i do to get my life back.
i never had sex i never been drunk i just had a boring life
plus i have no friends

2007-08-22 08:04:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When all the signs say they really want nothing to do with you even when you havent done anything to them....
Thanks in advance for all your answers................

2007-08-22 07:19:53 · 4 answers · asked by preistess 3

I have a friend called stuart who suffers from something like M.S, he lives on his own in a flat with his cat. he used to be a musician (played violin) but since getting M.S (which is not fully diegnosed yet) he has put his career on hold (or it may be classified as dead) . He doesnt go out much or do much anymore due to his illness, what he does do tires him out greatly, even within minutes. He's been having difficulty sleeping too, and feels like poo all the time.
There is not really anything i can do much physically to help him as we live miles away from each other, but i care about him alot. I'm interested in wicca like my mum but i need to find some kind of easy simple 'anyone can do it' spells or something to help him get more sleep, feel stronger and more better during the day
any help would be greatful :)
and please, to anyone who think that wicca is fake or satanism, do not spam me with your prude or uptight christian agruments. i do not need it. thanks.

2007-08-22 07:19:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the thing that scares girls away from loving him or even talkinh to him.

2007-08-22 06:52:25 · 15 answers · asked by ppohyhh 1

Me and a friend are worried about someone we've known well for a good few years. She is 18 and in the past year has left her full time job, got into some heavy drugs and moved in with her 37 year old "boyfriend" aka f*ck buddy/dealer. She's been smoking weed for a few years but is very innocent, used to be a tomboy - skating, playing guitar and generally being normal. She never had a boyfriend but got into sleeping around with guys who used her for sex before her "boyfriend" discovering her and luring her into his messy world of dealing, drugs, sex and who knows what else. She's moved to a town over half an hour away and it's difficult for her real friends to contact her. She doesn't realise the seriousness of what shes doing and replies with things like "It's only a bit of ..... blah blah blah" (drugs). Her family and little of her friends are aware of the relationship with her and this man, or the drugs. Any advice on what we can do to help. Talking just doesn't work.... Thanx

2007-08-22 04:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like...what is a good thing to say to console him, and pep talk? please and thank you.

2007-08-22 01:23:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm really shy by nature & work within a place of several , 6 of whom i work with closely and the rest is the "pleasant acknowledgment" but thats all. because i'm shy i feel insecure at times about being boring and being left out. the others are 7+ years older than me (i'm 23) yet sometimes act like theyre 16 and i dont really wish to join in. however theres one girl who is always sarcastic to me and has upset others as well as myself. in the end i sit at my desk, work and keep to myself because i dont like this girl much and when i do try, she is mean or simply pretends i'm not there. another worker acknowledges me but wont bother having much to do with me, am i giving off the impression i am there to work and thats all? i want to make friends with them but this one cow has to be centre of attention and being shy i end up alone and left out from "coffee breaks" etc as i choose to keep to myself and not put up with her rubbish. the others are wary of her but still want to be around her

2007-08-22 00:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by Ava G 2

I mean, i like these girls and want to be friends with them. Their kind of their own little clique. But im not too sure if i made the best impression today on 2 of the girls, :/ So how do i get them to want to be MY friend too? I guess you could say their the popular ones in the school....so i just want to know what kinds of things to do and say i guess on my second day and all :/ Thanks!

2007-08-21 23:03:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My proplem is that in my friend's birthday i give them present's and say happy birthday but when my birthday come they never get a present 4 me or even a word i told my mom she told my not 2 give them any thing , i don't want 2 do that they r going 2 b sad from me so plz say what would u do if u were in my place
help plzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-08-21 21:47:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

these two girls, (they are 1 year older than me) are saying that me and my friend were talking about them and that is SOO not true because i barely even know them!! but they wont beleive us!! and they didn't actually say they were gunna beat our azzes but we THINK they are cause they are the gangsta fighting type!! and me and my friends arent! school is starting september5 and im really scared!! they keep calling me and i never pic up cause im scared they will yell! ( i have no idea how they got my number ok.) this is exaclty why i hate school. because of all the drama and shyt!! im really nervous about going to 7th grade!! i just know they will come up to me and my friend on the first day of school and yell or pick a fight or whatver...what should i do?!! im freaking out here!

2007-08-21 21:30:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend told me that zip of his pant was open & his female colleague (monica) told him to close the zip.i didnt like that a girl can tell a male colleague until they are close friends . but he blamed my thinking. he told monica is right & my thinking is wrong. I tried him to stop to talk to that girl but he is behaving rudely.
I beleived that I was not asking any impossible thing because if we were going to marry we have to leave our family at least for sometime due to our family oppose so why he is unable to leave talking to a girl.he said he will not stop . I realised that i am not important to satyam . my feelings , love & care towards him is useless.

Next day he told that monica asked some help in studies & he has helped her in the office & taught her .other day he told me that monica liked my whistle to a song . I told him that i am hurted by his talks & requested him to stop talking to monica.he blamed me& told he will not stop.even for the sake of my happiness

2007-08-21 21:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend lives in the US and I now live in Australia... we used to be really good friends 1999-2002 but we had an argument in 2002 and we both married and went our seperate ways... well in 2004 I got an email from her out of the blue and she wrote this big email how she was living in Italy and she had a baby boy and she travels all over europe and she bought a BMW...(like she was bragging)
I was like oh congrats... well I'm living in Japan and I have a boy and girl aswell... so anywayz we've been emailing each other since then, but I only ever seem to get one from her when something is happening... like buying a new car or building a new home, or she's the #1 employee... blah blah
My husband just got a new job and we will be moving to the same city as her and her husband in the US, first she seemed excited and now she's ignoring my emails, i've asked her about the city and different things but she hasn't responded to anything.. any idea on why she's acting strange

2007-08-21 19:07:38 · 4 answers · asked by JazzyKat 2

my good friend and i talk online everynight 11 to 4 in the morning and well i have to go back to school and cant stay up that late cause i will fall asleep in class and well i think i made my friend madd. im scared if this is the end of our relationship and i really dont want it to be what di do PLEASE HELP im desperate for any answer

2007-08-21 18:47:47 · 18 answers · asked by t515 1

My close friend- Cari Carpenter told me this on Wednesday- You are a friend to me not an associate.. You are fun to be around. We like to eat.. We like to have challenges like w bowling and basketball.

But, she needs to realize, I'm a person who 01) is diagnosed with a disorder that saids- "inability to interact socially in general", 02) doesn't like to be around those that I don't know or feel comfortable; 03) wants to move back to Maryland & get away from all the HELL I'm dealing with in Virginia & 04) I'm getting a headache, of dealing with my the system of RACSB (Rappahannock Ara Community Services) & my case manager & some other budding into my personal 411 (which makes me want to start a new war- MORTAL KOMBAT 10).

So, I'm saving my $$$, the more I get , the better chance of me leaving Virginia and saying goodbye to those I won't call, write or email.

Last, I don't feel like doing this challenge, with my advocate of being more positive. It just not me at all.

2007-08-21 17:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

what do you do when you tell a friend that you like some one andshesays she doesnt then dates him is she really your friend....i have known her since kindergarten

2007-08-21 17:18:19 · 19 answers · asked by kaitlin c 1

We both lived in Pullman Washington & went to Gladish Middle School

2007-08-21 17:14:20 · 1 answers · asked by ilovemonkeybutt 1

I really can't figure out a way to forgive one of my best friends and my guy for being with each other. It hurts so bad. Here's what happened:
Me and this guy really really liked each other and we got really close and we were pretty much a couple. I thought I loved him. We were together...[we never did anything] for about a year..and then there was this big fight b/t me and my best friends. [she's friends with him to] in which I asked him what he thought, and he told me he didn't like me anymore and then I found out that my best friend liked him and that he liked her...and that they wanted to be together. He wasn't even sorry...

They have hurt me so bad, esp. since they both lied to me. How do I forgive them..? Should I become friends with them again? If so..how do I make our relationships work? If not, then how do I tell them that, without hurting them?

2007-08-21 17:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Becky 4

do u have to be going out to kiss .. or can u kiss a really close guy friend???

2007-08-21 17:01:46 · 15 answers · asked by none 2

Please help me choose i need one for the dance in 2 weeks?

2007-08-21 16:24:31 · 8 answers · asked by natasha is hot 1

does anyone know what 4:20 means? my friends and books use it and wont tell me what it means. email me if you are afraid that you or i will get reported. thanks so much

2007-08-21 15:49:28 · 1 answers · asked by Gwenna 2

Today at school I was talking to my best friend I've known for like ever. So now she has a boyfriend and he smokes. Then she told me that she smokes. When she told me that I just died inside because I thought she would never smoke. But she said her and her boyfriend have to quit. The only people that know is me and her. I don't want to tell my parents or hers or else she'll be so mad at me and I don't wanna lose my best friend. When I hear stuff like this I won't get over it for a really long time. So what should I do!? Please help me!!!

2007-08-21 14:46:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 14:20:24 · 19 answers · asked by linz 4

i know this will sound mean, but theres this girl thats in my "group" or watever. the only reason we still put up with her is because she is related to another one of my friends. she is just EXTREMALY anoying and recently we stook up for her and she stabbed us in the back, which she is constantly doing, she is always trying to start fights between people, and is constantly lying to try and impress us and everyone else even when we all know. so me and my friends are trying to think of a way to get her out of our group and send her the message that we wont put up with her crap.

2007-08-21 13:33:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 13:27:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous