best way to get rid of a friend?

Question

i know this will sound mean, but theres this girl thats in my "group" or watever. the only reason we still put up with her is because she is related to another one of my friends. she is just EXTREMALY anoying and recently we stook up for her and she stabbed us in the back, which she is constantly doing, she is always trying to start fights between people, and is constantly lying to try and impress us and everyone else even when we all know. so me and my friends are trying to think of a way to get her out of our group and send her the message that we wont put up with her crap.

whenever we have tryed to tell her easily or watever she gets all defensive and ignores it. so we need something that will get her to understand. cause we've tryed to talk to her countless amount of times...

Answer 1

Quite simply you need to be honest, not in an aggressive manner but rather be direct and straight up with her. Tell her this behaviour is causing problems, no one is comfortable or happy with her actions and sadly, she is not very pleasant to be around.

I know this may sound harsh but ~ for me ~ sometimes people need the tough/non-aggressive approach in order to begin to take a look at themselves. That she is related to a friend might make this somewhat more difficult and perhaps that person can speak for everyone as they have a connection.

I wish you well.....:):):)

Answer 2

just have all you and your friends talk to her and tell her why you dont want her to hang with you anymore. if she's lying to you guys and stuff you dont need her and if she is already stabbing you in the back she deffinatley does not need to be your friend. she migh try to start a fight with you guys when you tell her but jusrt ignore it. =]
i hope i helped!